Am really close friends with a girl. At times, she calls me Hubi/Sweetie/Sunshine. She asked me out on a date and I said Yes. She then says that she just wants to be friends and was joking - I say OK.
Then she says she doesn't want a boyfriend ever because shes been hurt in the past and is looking for a husband. She askes me if I honestly like her - I say Yes. She says we should get to know each other - I say OK. A day later says she justs wants to be friends because she doesn't want to get hurt again and mess up our friendship!
What does it mean?
2006-06-09 14:18:42 · 7 answers · asked by Bubble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Means she's confused and is leading you on, Maybe not on purpose, but she needs to know that she is toying with you and hurting you. She is doing to you what was done to her. Tell her you like her and want to be with her, and she should either commit to that or stop playing with your feelings.
2006-06-09 14:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what it means , i say too much game plaing is no fun sounds like she takin her hurt out on u , givivg to u what she got . don't play the game , sounds like a waste of time , and y should u allow her to hurt u , tell her never mind and get lost
2006-06-09 14:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time if you do love her, just let her think it though in her head. if she really likes you, then everything will work out. remember her heart has be hurt in the past so try to understand.
2006-06-09 14:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes scared of the relationship you have to figure out a way to let her know you will not hurt her...
2006-06-09 14:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... how old are you? You also need to realize that once you cross that boundary, you can't go back. Ask yourself what she means to you -- if you don't love her, it isn't worth it.
2006-06-09 14:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did'nt you already ask this question because I already answered it.
2006-06-09 14:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she confusin u...n me 2...ya'll should jus b friends...cuz obviously she doesn't know wut she wants yet....give her some time to think and straighten her thoughts
2006-06-09 14:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋