Am really close friends with a girl. At times, she calls me Hubi/Sweetie/Sunshine. She asked me out on a date and I said Yes. She then says that she just wants to be friends and was joking - I say OK.
Then she says she doesn't want a boyfriend ever because shes been hurt in the past and is looking for a husband. She askes me if I honestly like her - I say Yes. She says we should get to know each other - I say OK. A day later says she justs wants to be friends because she doesn't want to get hurt again and mess up our friendship!
What does it mean?
2006-06-09 14:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by Bubble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is confused sit with her and decide whats on her mind
2006-06-09 14:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by candledodo9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow. That girl can't make up her mind, can she? She probably likes you, but is afraid of getting hurt. If you are already really close, then I can see where she's afraid of ruining the relationship. But since you are close, then she should know how well you can be trusted. Just give her a little more time. You'll figure out what she actually wants.
2006-06-09 21:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by a_devil_in_that_angel_face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs some serious counseling. You should ask her what does she really want to happen to your friendship/relationship. Be open and honest to how you really feel about each other. You have to communicate with each other so you'll both have peace of mind.
2006-06-09 21:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by deb_hwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is just flirting . Dont take it serious right now. Sounds like she has been hurt alot and need time to heal and to trust again. Give her that time and take things real slow!
2006-06-09 22:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is confused! She wants you but don't wanna mess up a good friendship!! I guess at them lonely times she wants you in more ways then friends!!
2006-06-09 21:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to take over and start making her feel that she can trust again. if you really like her then sweep her off of her feet with old fashion kindness. ask her out
2006-06-09 21:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Al 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you for sure but doesn't know if you will hurt her or really want to be with her for a long time.... you need to help her understand whether you want to be with her and why. And that if you do that you won't hurt her. help her to trust you...
2006-06-09 21:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably on-again_off again with another man and keeping you as the "jerk in reserve".
In your place, I'd dump her -- she's a game player.
2006-06-09 21:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to take it easy!..hang on in there.Give her time.Good Luck!
2006-06-09 21:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by lavito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is totally confused or smart and testing you...keep your cool
2006-06-09 21:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋