2006-06-09 14:13:33 · 20 answers · asked by lovinglikablelickable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes. You shacked up with him, got pregnant, had 2 kids, he doesn't care. Why buy the milk when the cow is free? Congratulations, you are one of many free hookers.
2006-06-09 14:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by wldaz1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend upon how important marriage is to you. People get married to legitimize their children, for inheritance rights in case of death, etc. "Polite" society usually requires that if you are having children together, it is probably a good idea to be married. People who are not having children are choosing to not marry, even though they may be living together, or are past the time of having children or retired, and one or the other will loose social security or other benefits. This apparently isn't the two of you guys. So, just how important is a piece of paper to you, or for you to be called "Mrs."? Why is he against marriage?? What's the big deal, unless he is worth a fortune, and figures you'll sue for everthing he has????
2006-06-09 21:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Let him know that marriage is important to you - and ask him whats keeping him from wanting to get married. Be honest with eachother and try to reach an agreement that will work for both of you.
2006-06-09 21:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already had two kids and arent married I think he isnt about to change the status quo. If I were you I would seek someone who loved me and wanted a family and quit fooling around.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-09 23:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because ive been with mine for 3 yrs and we have a daughter to gether. ive put up with alot from him and when he seen that there is noone out there that can treat him as good as i did. he came back and now we live 2 gether and are doing well. we have talked about marriage.. but he isnt ready like i am. i have a career and he is tryin to find hisself. hang in there if u love him like i did, it will turn out ok..good luck
2006-06-09 21:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by tipken31313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say that you are wasting your time, but if you feel as though you are, you just may be. Do you talk about marriage and just put it off? What does he want?
2006-06-09 21:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by mazoo_nc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no. i was with my boyfirends for 9 years. just got married 2 yeaks ago. and we have 4 kids together
2006-06-10 18:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, marrage is not for everyone . Marrage is a pice of paper. Stay with him. Who cares you could be together forevenr.
2006-06-09 21:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY, AREN'T YOU SUPPOSED TO BE MARRIED AND THEN HAVING CHILDREN??? YOU ALREADY PLAY MOM & DAD & THE FAMILY PART. YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR BF ABOUT THIS. I THINK WHAT YOU WANT IS A WEDDING AND A MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE.. CUZ ACCORDING TO YOUR SITUATION.. YOU ARE MARRIED.
DO YOU THINK YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME?
2006-06-09 21:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably would have walked when you got pregnant if he wasn't in it for the long haul. Besides, marriage is overrated.
2006-06-09 21:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋