2006-06-09 14:10:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am getting divorced right now.....i feel so good about it....best move i have made.....why stay married to someone you don't love? someone who lied to you?
2006-06-09 14:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not always. it all depends on the reason or reasons the marriage failed in the first place. in these times we live in people don't take to heart what god has yoked together let no man take apart. now days people seem to think if i don't get my way i will leave the marriage. the only grounds i myself feel that should lead to divorce our/ adultery,death,spousal abuse. marriage should not be taken lightly. its gods arrangement. so if you have been cheated on or beat up or lost a spouse to death you have cause to feel better and move on. otherwise try to work the marriage arrangement out. counseling,church,manners, don't be afraid of change sometimes we have to feel uncomfortable to get back to comfortable.im speaking from experience.i don't feel right yet I'm divorced i was a victim of domestic violence and yet one still has feelings after 28yrs. so in the right situation only time can mend a broken heart. if you leave your marriage for no reason then one needs to ask themselves this. did i really love that person? most of the time someone gets hurt if not both partners. thank you
2006-06-09 21:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on the reason for the marriage breaking up
if you were being lied to, your wife/husband had affairs or there was violence then it wuold probably make you feel better.
but if you were left for someone else and had three kids to bring up you might regard it as the worst thing that happened to you.
if children are involved though i think that they need to be taken into consideration as well.
if any of the people in a marriage are unhappy though for any reason then i think that it would be far better for them to move on and find love or happiness somewhere else.
if someone was with me but they did not have any feelings for me then i think that i would prefer to not be married.
2006-06-10 07:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by rheainscotland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of marriage you are getting out of. if the marriage was a marriage that was draining the life of you then yes it will feel better. obviously any marriage that ends feels better when you get. divorcing is a sort of liberation. you may feel liberated and free when you get out of a marriage. a marriage may go wrong when you lose who you are. when you agree for the sake of saving face when its you that's losing out. my advice be free, find yourself. take the time to know you over again. i promise that you may like it. good luck if it is you who came out of the marriage. i promise you a rainbow will come out of your situation or whosever situation it is.
2006-06-09 21:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by supergirl331117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a_devil_in_that_angel talking about?? Guilty??
About what?? I put everything I can into my 6 year marriage (11 year relationship), it came to and end, and I'm happy to be out of it and starting a new life...
Sometime you just have to face the music and do what you have to do...
2006-06-09 21:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what the reason for divorce is. I felt a million times better! I was in a sever depressed state when I got married, but when Ieft him, my life turned around for the better, both emotinally and professionally!
2006-06-09 21:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by mazoo_nc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always going to be sad, no matter what the circumstances r. when u know youve tried everything u possibility can and this is the only answer, well u have to do it. When u marry, well most of us marry for life and when it ends, u feel like you ve failed.
2006-06-10 03:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by tracye3005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends -- some people do i'm sure. you will have you good and your bad days. some days you will love the freedom and then other days you will miss having someone around to love. but in the long run - just remember that it happened for a reason!
2006-06-09 21:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 100% happier since i got out of my marriage!! It was a lot of weight off my sholders!! My kids are happy now too!!!
2006-06-09 21:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt better but i was in a really bad marraige for 12 years, i married for all the wrong reasons
2006-06-09 21:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if the marriage wasnt working it just takes a couple of weeks to get over it cos you know its ****** up
2006-06-09 21:24:36 · answer #11 · answered by spow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋