i have this friend and we were very close about 2 years ago we would talk on the phone for about 4 or 5 hours every night. but when i told her i had a boyfriend she suddenly stopped talking to me. I saw her at a store about a year ago and she looked like she was a little nervous to see me. and about a few months ago my mom saw her at a store and she told me she asked about me and asked if i was in to store with my mom that day, but when i tried to call her she didnt pick up the phone the first few times. she picked up once though and she sounded kinda sad like her feelings were still hurt, when i put the phone down to go do something she hung up and i havent talked to her since. does she still have feelings for me and thats the reason she ignores me now because she thinks we cant be friends
2006-06-09 14:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lesbians!? maybe she loves u... but try talking it out with her...
or.. as an alternative... u can also try it out once with her... u know it won't harm u... if she really loves u it can be really good too!
2006-06-09 14:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by *~dazzling.black~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl talking about another girl crushing on you or are you a gay guy? I think she's only being kind to your mom by asking about you, like to pass the time and not be rude. I would stop calling her a ton of times too. That would make one nervous. Or she's playing games. Change your number, don't call her, and if she asks your mom about you, say, that's nice, and that's it.
And what do you care? Aren't you still involved with someone or are you single and do you want to get with her? Then grow a backbone and say you want to meet up and settle the deal once and for all.
2006-06-23 01:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused here. Are you a guy and you told this female you had a boyfriend? If you're GAY this is why the girl is running for the hills!! She probably thought she had a future with you in a relationship. Think about it....
Maybe the girl is embarrased because she didn't pick you up on her GAY radar and thought you were HETRO.
Maybe your friend doesn't want to end up like the TV show "WILL and GRACE".
2006-06-23 06:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think she is in love with you, although I am not ruling it out entirely. My gut reaction is that she became jealous that you had a boyfriend in your life and she didn't. She got upset because she felt he would become your priority over her, or perhaps you would no longer have anything in common because you had a b.f. and she didn't.
Something like this happened to me, but I was 28 at the time. I was best friends with this girl who wasn't dating anyone at the time I got engaged. One day my best friend (now former), her other best friend and I got together to hang out in the City. Coincidentally this other girl was also engaged and our mutual friend was the maid of honor at both our weddings. Anyway, Lori - the other engaged girl - and I were chatting about our wedding plans and we were including Ellie in the conversation. What did Ellie do? She ran out of the room crying hysterically. I went to go after her when Lori said, "Don't bother. She always does this when she doesn't get attention, or if she is feeling sorry for herself!" I was shocked but Lori was right. 5 years later, when I got pregnant, I told Ellie about it. You would think that she would be thrilled for me, right? I was her best friend so I thought she would be. WRONG. Her reaction to my news? DEAD SILENCE ON THE PHONE and after 2 minutes passed, she said, "Oh. Wow." The upshot: JEALOUSY. After nearly 25 years of this kind of crap, I cut my ties with her.
Your friend is jealous. If you want the friendship, reach out to her. If not, let her go. But being in love with you? No, hon. She wants a b.f. and the fact that she doesn't makes her feel bad about herself. Plain and simple.
2006-06-23 19:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from what it sounds like, she could be.but lets not go jumping to conclusions. the next time you talk to her or see her, just ask her why she stopped talking to you and why. tell her that no matter what the reason is for her non communication to you is, you will still be friends and always will be.
2006-06-22 22:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will surely call you back and start talking to you. Donot make any attempts to call her or meet her at this point. Please be busy with your studies and donot disturb her. may be there are exams in the offing and she wants to study for that reason.
I think, she loves you a lot and wants you to make a career first.
2006-06-09 21:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, i think this is cute. She for sure loves you. Keep trying to get a hold of her and tell her what you think about everything. Don't give up and good luck!!
2006-06-23 20:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Hilary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is in love with u so try talking to her again!!!
2006-06-09 21:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by NO DICE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that you are very sorry and tell her that you and her can be friends again.
2006-06-09 21:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋