my friend is only 13 and she had a baby I don't know what to say to her what can I do?
2006-06-09 14:05:01 · 29 answers · asked by aimeedsmith 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell her, "I don't know what to say to you." Tell her you still want to be her friend and you'll be there to listen to her. If she's keeping th baby she'll need someone to talk to. She'll probably complain a lot. Try to be understanding. If she's not keeping the baby, she'll probably miss the baby and may want to talk about it. Just try to be patient and understanding.
2006-06-09 14:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Susan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing her and the guy both need an *** kicking, 2 Either support her or do what ever you can how does her mother feel??She needs all the support she can get now if you want to get technical some people would say call the adoption hot line for a pregnancy crisis but if it was my friend i would ask her what she wanted to do and see what would be right for her to raise the kid or what cause she is still one her self and she has a big future planned well she did until now , she cant get a job if the daddy is old enough to he needs to get one but they need to decide with the parents on what should happen
2006-06-21 15:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by chris k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is support her. It is a very young age to have a baby but the baby is here. She is probably having a difficult time and all. Maybe it would even be helpful for her to get some counseling on what would be best for her.
2006-06-19 01:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by cdmandel2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak from your heart and you can't go wrong, 13 is so young, try to talk to her about the baby and ask her how she is doing and maybe you guys could go out and go to a movie or something if she can get a babysitter
2006-06-09 21:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by iluvmyduckies05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. There is nothing you can say. Just listen to her when she needs someone to talk to her, help her when she needs help. Don't abandon her. A lot of her friends are going to and it's the last thing she needs. This is going to be a time when she will need you the most, it's time to grow up and step up to the plate and show her you are a true friend. It's not in what you say, it's in what you do.
2006-06-17 22:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her life is over. You can go and find another friend because once she has the baby she will be stuck in the house all the time. No partys or school dances. You and also learn a lesson from her and keep your legs closed.
2006-06-21 13:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. At 13 she is still a baby herself. Take note of what her life is like and learn from it. NO SEX!!
2006-06-09 21:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be close to her, to help her (not with the baby if you dont want, but by being with her when she has to be with her baby instead of going out with other kids). Make her fel she can be supported by you. That you love her even after this BIG BIG change in her life.... Tell her that you feel awkward with what to tell her but you will try to be the best of yourself!!
2006-06-23 19:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. She's still your friend even if she is a mom now. She really needs her friends now. Ask her what you can do and tell her you are uncomfortable. I'm sure she is feeling the same way. Good luck and be a good friend even if it is a little weird.
2006-06-21 15:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by beanietara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her she has a long road ahead of her she is still a baby herself that tried to make a grown up choice be there as a friend for her and maybe even baby sit for her when she needs to do her homework
2006-06-18 21:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋