I had two best friends. Well, the three of us used to hang out together, go out during the weekends, stay together @ school, during luch, etc. One of my friends started getting more interested on another friend, to the point that she invited her to a football game and completely ignored us. She started getting all picky and her personality changed. She did not like to go out with us anymore and she would make any excuse to not go with us. Anyway, my other friend and I became close friends. My other friend (the changed one) turned out having a boyfriend and that was the end. She ignored me, she wouldn't call me or even talk to me. I tried to talk to her once but she started yelling at me. I started being best friends with my other friend and she is now trying to "fix things up" but she has the attitude of saying that it was her mistake but she doesn't at my back that I am against her and she is trying to make herself be the victim. She doesn't look @ me in the eye when she talks to me.
2006-06-09 14:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by LovelyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Someone who won't look you in the eye is not someone you want to be close with, unless the person is just shy. NOT THE CASE HERE. The way I see it (and I have a few years under my belt) is this: if she doesn't want to be your friend, that is okay. You will learn that you don't always have to be friends with everyone, and that people do sometimes change. We wouldn't be human if we didn't change. Its part of growing and maturing (or not maturing). Either way, you don't necessarily have to make an enemy of her. I have people that I was close with in high school that I don't even recognize anymore...you know, the people that you swear will always be BFF. It seems an insurmountable issue now, but in a few years, will it really be that big a deal? You will always have your friends, and then the people you just know. There will be people you will see on a daily basis who are super fun to know, and there will be the sourpusses. The only person who's decisions and friendships you will ever be able to control are your own. the sooner you understand this, the easier it will be to deal with the not-so-nice people in your life.
2006-06-09 14:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by lilsis_n82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh that sounds like me. I started ignoring a friend that I've known for 10 years. I apologized because what I did was stupid. I was being selfish. I didn't try to make myself the victim, though. We are now friends again. But your situation sounds different. If she's not willing to accept the fact that she ruined the friendship or whatever, then I don't think you should hang out with her anymore. That's what I have to say.
2006-06-09 21:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by a_devil_in_that_angel_face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that she has choosen to stop talking to you and you should not take that personally. You seem like a nice person and if you need a new friend email me at starfayjewels@yahoo.com.
2006-06-09 21:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by starfayjewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with the friends you already have.Don't talk 2 her anymore just ignore her.Like if she lies 2 u it obviously means she does'nt care ' bout u.
2006-06-09 21:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should move on and be friends with your other friend if she kept secrets to u that means she is not your friend and she didn't care about u anymore!!!!
2006-06-09 21:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by NO DICE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to get rid of the other firend but don't let her know...Try to get along with her again....may be the other girl is a ganster
2006-06-09 21:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by wxy0062003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewe say good bye get another friend fast.
2006-06-09 21:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT HANG WITH THE GIRL WHOS GOT THE BOYFRIEND......HANG WITH YOUR OTHER FRIENDS IF SHE STOPS TALKING TO YOU THEN OBVIOUSLY SHES NOT YOUR FRIEND.....
2006-06-09 21:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, aren't you my uncle's sister's daddy's cousin's girlfriend??
2006-06-09 21:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by batsey99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K, good luck with that
2006-06-09 21:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋