2 of my best friends got into i fight and one got very frustated that he punched one in the face and he got a cut and a bloody nose. Now there not talking at all. Should i go with my friend that got punched or the one who punched him.
2006-06-09 13:55:21 · 12 answers · asked by issaw a 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
neither. stay out of it...otherwise, you end up in the middle. & may end up loosing a friend.....
The fight could also blow over & they will be friends again.
2006-06-09 13:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Talk to them both on the phone and tell them you are arranging peace talks, and that they had better both attend because you refuse to be put into the position of being forced to choose between two people you care about.
When you all meet, get them talking about how they can resolve their differences. Make certain they both know that hitting is not an option at this meeting, and that if anybody starts hitting, the police will be coming to arrest the abuser. Whoever starts with fighting words to try to instigate the hitting should be told to grow up and learn to negotiate peace, because friends who are true are not easy to find and should not be quickly discarded. Best wishes.
2006-06-09 21:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by rainbeauclown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the fight over? Unless you feel one way or another you should stay impartial, but if the fight in one way or another made you loose respect for one or both of your friends, then I would stand up for what I believe in. If you feel it wasa misunderstanding maybe you could play devils advocate, but again, if you have no strong feelings one way or another, then you should just stay out of it.
2006-06-09 22:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep out of it and not see either one for the time being . Give them a chance to cool off or it will look like you are choosing sides & playing favorites .
2006-06-09 20:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends don't take sides. Let them cool off for a while and hopefully they'll talk to each other again soon.
2006-06-09 20:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Tweety Gurl*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have to choose between to ppl an they shouldnt discriminate or get mad at u for not taking anyones side an tell them both that they made u disappionted in them for there actions
2006-06-09 21:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself in the middle of their problem. Your freinds with both of them. They'll work it out one day.
2006-06-09 20:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by AhhBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to choose?
both are your friends right?
so, just keep on talking to them and be a bridge that would bring back their friendship.. that's what friends are for right?
2006-06-11 12:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by happy_moron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until they're calmed down cuz if u go with both you might lose a friend or worse lose both.so just give em time.
2006-06-09 21:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by yahaira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them work it out,,,,,,,u dont want caught up in the middle and choose sides it will work out if there friends
2006-06-09 22:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by msladybug17268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋