Why is it so hard to find a great guy?

Answer 1

Great guy = tall, rich, dark skinned, rich, amazingly gorgeous, rich, drives a hot car, super nice and supportive, hung like a mule, rich, great in bed, etc. Lower your expectations. You will find a man that's good, but you can't expect to find waht you see in those stupid romance novels and chick flicks. There are many good men out there, you just need to clear your foggy glasses and realize that this ain't a perfect world. I guess this is why all women cheat, because no man is perfect and since that's so, we get blamed for it and that gives you the right to f_ck anyone you want. Oh well, c'est la vie.

Answer 2

It all depends how hard your looking. Your time will come, perfection cannot be rushed, so be patient and your great guy will come along.

And maybe because most of the great guys are either already in a relationship or gay.

Answer 3

Drumminmofo is right u girls are too picky,u rather go for bronze than brains,yall want a dime thats hard to spend instead of a dime that'll get u 10 pennies(u probably dont understand what I mean by that)

Answer 4

Because we don't always see the truth (good or bad) about a person at first. We may overlook a "great guy" for one silly reason or another, and never "find" him.

Answer 5

I'm a hot single guy who treats all girls with respect. That's the way I was raised. I've never cheated on a girl and will never cheat on one. All I ask is that I find someone who will treat me the same way.

Answer 6

Don't worry, you'll meet Mr. Right one day, when you least expect it. If you're looking, then you have a set of standards, and thus you'll always find something wrong with the guys you're with. Just wait, i assure you he'll come along and swoop you off your feet!:)

Answer 7

That's a good question. Because most of them are the devil. Back in the old day's you find more good guy's then bad. But now you can't find one. God will give you the man he want's you to have. Most of the time he will give you somebody bad so you can help them. If you leave them then they are on there own.

God bless you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

so many girls will lower standards just to get a guy's attention, then not understand how he could be a jerk.....aim high...
think of the things you want in a guy...then go where those kind of guys would be...for instance, if you don't want a drug addict, don't go where the drug addicts hang out...watch how the guy you like treats people, how he treats other girl friends is how he will treat you for the most part...if he would cheat on his girlfriend to be with you, then he will cheat on you to be with someone else....keep your standards high, no matter what he looks like, don't settle.....your worth it.....

Answer 9

You gotta love a lot of the wrong people before the right one comes along. It's just a matter of time and patience.

Answer 10

I agree... It is hard! But I have one and he is one in a million! And I am not letting him go. HaHA. He spoils me and doesn't want me to work. He spends all of his time with me and our daughters and not his friends... He doesn't go out with them and leave me home. We go out together every once in awhile. On most weekends we sit at home or take our daughters out to eat and to Wal-Mart...lol We have fun together! The guy above is right...no man is perfect. So you have to work with him on his imperfections... Women aren't perfect either!