im not one of them
2006-06-09 13:18:23 · 31 answers · asked by spike13bw 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
not pregnet and a proud virgen
2006-06-09 13:52:38 · update #1
Congrats for not being pregnant but you don't say that you aren't having sex. Most teens think that pregnancy is the worst thing that can happen from having premarital sex. They don't consider the STD or the self esteem issues or lack of trust they are creating between themselves and their parents or the other persons self esteem. Not to mention the health of future spouses or the regret they may someday feel when they meet the person they want to spend their life with and they have to admit that they slept around. don't kid yourself you won't just have sex with this one person that happens so rarely.
The girls that got pregnant will live through the delivery most likely and will their lives will be significantly altered they can actually still go on to be contributing members of the society.
Someone that gets an STD or becomes so depressed because of a lack of self esteem.......not so much so!
2006-06-09 13:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by momoftwoandlovingit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. Especially for 14-year-olds But its good to hear that you are a virgin. Set an example for the rest of the girls in your grade. Trust me there are going to be consequences for those 7 girls. They are definitely going to miss out on a lot in life. I'm 16 and a proud virgin, and my advice to you is don't give in to temptations, raise your standards, wait until you feel the time is right to have sex, make sure its with someone you seriously love and they love you the same way back and is there for you no matter what. Its better this way. If you need someone to talk to my email is seec_cedric@yahoo.com.
~Good luck and God Bless~
2006-06-09 17:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that it's sad and I wish that those girls would've waited till they were older because no 14 year old is ready for motherhood. Of course whats done is done so now they have to deal with it and if any of them is your friend they will need you more now then ever. I wish them all the luck in the world and if I was you I'd use protection so the same thing doesn't happen to you. Good luck to all the girls they'll need it.
2006-06-09 13:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by cdavis257 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth do kids as young as 14 want to pop their cherry asap?
what is the tearing hurry?
what is wrong with just saying no?
guys don't respect the gals who are giving them what they claim to want and the sooner their realize that then the easier it will be for the gals to keep their cherry a good while longer
but then if there was good sex and relational education and examples then the teenage pregnancy rate will go down
and please don't start being sexually active at 14 - you will live to regret it i can assure you
true love waits
2006-06-09 13:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good sex ed class would be a good thing.
Seems like someone would have a talk with them about why you don't sleep with people unprotected, not just because of being too young to raise a child at that age, but because of AIDS and all the other diseases.
What a sad sad shame.
2006-06-09 13:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your head high do not give in to any repeat any peer pressure. Just because they did is no sign you should. The whole world is out there for you. They made a decision to close some of those doors. Honey don't fall for it. In 6 more years you will understand its the best decision you ever made after looking at your classmates that didn't have sense.
P.S. Hug your parents
2006-06-09 13:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by retired_afmil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls parents shouldn't have let them go on dates there to young,and guys can't be trusted at this age theyw anna explore and stuff.That's so sad!at least your not one of them!you be the example for others around u and don't get pregnet!
2006-06-09 13:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a shame! I don't ever remember hearing about so many pregnant teens in my life! I think parents need to spend more time with their kid's talking to them about sex-ed rather than leaving it to the schools to teach! I have no doubt that if my mother talked to me about sex, I would not have gotten pregnant at 15!
2006-06-09 13:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by jewel of the nile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That class is too grown and filled with hooooooooooooooooooes besides the ones whos not having sex and the ones who dont have sex with many guys and always use rubbers
2006-06-09 13:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sad. Each of their parents should be given a beat down.
2006-06-09 13:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋