wheni ask my dad that if i could go out he yells at me.
2006-06-09 13:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
welli got a jobb but i cant go out not even wit my firendss
2006-06-09 13:16:23 · update #1
Well i just had a talk with him and he said im still alittle girl and that i could go out when become soemthing in life icant believe thiz im bout to like shoot myself or go half crazy all my lifee icant TAKE IT NO MORE
2006-06-09 14:53:15 · update #2
Get a job and move out.
2006-06-09 13:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are 18, the law sees you as an adult it's time your dad treats you like an adult as well!! you can move out you said you have a job, just get a place and move. If you don't want to move out talk to your dad and see what the problem is. Good luck!!
2006-06-09 13:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about why he doesn't want you to go out? Is it your choice of friends, your past behavior or is he too controlling. If you think he is too controlling think about your choice of friends again and then your past. IF you still think he is too controlling you need to decide it he is doing it out of love or because he has issues. If he has issues talk to someone. If it is out of love...talk to him and try and find a compromise. 18 seems old but not if you plan on living to 80. Can you have a relationship with your dad? You may not want one now but what if you decide later that you do? Can you ever make up for actions you took just because you weren't willing to even try and work things out with him. If it is dangerous for you or unhealthy seek help but if he is just trying to protect you help him understand that being over protective is just as hurtful to your development at no protection at all. Then make choices your dad can be proud of.
2006-06-09 13:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by momoftwoandlovingit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. You are 18. Legal age. Do what you want.. better yet, move OUT. He is probably being protective and maybe he doesn't find you mature enough to go out. Try talking to him rationally... NO arguing, yelling or pouting! Act mature and responsible and maybe he will change his mind.
2006-06-09 15:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by GibsonGirlz4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hes trying to hold on to u.Explain to him that your old enouph to go out if u want your not going to do anything bad.Let him call u on your cell whenever he wants to make sure safe.Mabey that will help you.Good luck!
2006-06-09 13:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and he wants to take care of you..he is your dad and wants the best for you so listen to him be wants the good for you..
2006-06-09 13:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by HOBBY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're old enough to move out and live on your own. You can come live with me. Do you have a boyfriend???
2006-06-09 17:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by TommyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should have a nice sit down talk with your dad and tell him how you feel and remind him that you not a little girl anymore.
2006-06-16 09:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by breezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 18 tell him your an adult. MOve out if he dont let you hang out with your friends.
Take Care
2006-06-09 15:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by ©hel§ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE DOES'NT THINK YOUR MATURE ENOUGH. TRY TO SHOW RESPONBILY AND MATURTY AND RESPECT HIM SO MAYBE HE MIGHT HAVE SECOND THOUGHTS OR JUST LIE AND DON'T GET CAUGHT. LIKE SAY YOUR GOING TO A SLEEPOVERS AT YOUR FRIENDS HOUSE OR IF YOU CAN'T GO TO YOUR FRIENDS HOUSE JUST INVITE THEM OVER YOURS. SIMPLE AS THAT. GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-09 13:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jay Tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋