I really dont know what too do,is there some kind of meds we could go see a doctor about.
2006-06-09 13:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by mike s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how old is she? women do go thru menopause at different ages. they loose the sexual desire but not always the interest. when it is over watch out! they want it more then! there are always ways to enjoy sex other then intercourse too. there are meds and stuff that can be given by A qualified Dr. to help her thru the hot flashes. if this is not the problem then maybe she just doesn't want sex anymore, then you have a age old problem that will never be answered. good luck !
2006-06-09 13:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by feeln17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a girls point of view...sometimes the motivation that initially excited your girl is no longer there. What i mean is, at the beginning of a relationship, there is an element of seduction, the chase and so on. As your girl starts to trust you and love tou, she realizes she didnt actually like the things she was doing, she was just trying to impress you and make you happy. its not that you are a bad lay..she just hasnt found the pleasure of sex for her.
What you need to do..is tell her to relax, say all her fears and pleasures and exactly wat she wants. Dont ever pressure her or compare her.
Creativity also helps. Spice up your sex life by doing things you've never tried..blindfold her and make her crazy with a flower, caress her for an hour until she begs for you to enter her, watch erotica with her..there is a lot you can do. I
I know wat you r going thru coz my boyfriend and i passed thru this stage. relationships have seasons too. Just appreciate that and communicate and you'l be fine.
Good Luck!
2006-06-09 13:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by stee117 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many things. Change in hormones due to age or pregnancy. Or not having an orgasm can make a woman forget how great it is. If it's just wam-bam-thankyoumam, then she's going to get tired of it. switch things up a bit. don't kiss the same spots everytime. catch her off guard and make her remember how great it was the first time you and her made love. usually once you get a woman back in the groove of things it will straighten out, but if she keeps resisting something may be wrong. remember to support her and not make her feel guilty for refusing because it may not be her fault.
2006-06-09 13:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Holly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means see a DR with her,, preferably a gynocologist.
She may have a thyroid problem or may be having problems with depression or something.
Make sure your doing your part by being loving and supportive.
2006-06-09 13:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you treating her? if your not being a nice person maybe she dosnt want to. Have you given her any reason to believe that you are cheating on her? if so that is your answer
2006-06-09 13:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by cookiedjnpc11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be anything, physically or mentally. You won't know unless you talk to her.
2006-06-09 13:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋