how easy would it be for my husband to get custody of our 2 year old daughter if we got a divorce? He has a 6 year old from a previous relationship that he got custody of. They were never married. He told me one time(in an argument) that it would be easy for him to because he could say that he doesnt want the kids to grow up in seperate households. But his x( the one he has his other kid by)has two other kids so if that was the case, he wouldnt have his oldest one. Ad Im pregnant with another one. No way in hell he would be able to prove I was an unfit parent. He's the type of person who likes to sceam things. I was around through the whoe custody battle with his last one. He would go for custody out of spite. Is there a better chance on his side?
2006-06-09 12:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really need to work this out for the kids sake. What kind of life would they have with you two bickering all the time? Trust me they will grow into troubled adults. You and your husband need marriage counseling. Unless he beats you it is best to work it out.
Marriage is hard work please don't give up for your children's sake.
Hugs!
G.G.
2006-06-09 13:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No.. I would document with date / time etc all the threats and the situation surrounding them. If he has an anger problem that anyone else can attest to great.
My ex said he would take my son from me.. what he ended up with was supervised visitation allowed once a month. Now it is about once a year because he lives out of state.
I would also look into the laws of your state.. Nolo.com is a good place to start.
2006-06-09 19:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but you do need to get a lawyer and have a talk with someone if you are a fit mother then i dont see any chance of him taking your kids from you. Good Luck!!!
2006-06-09 19:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will always give mom the kids as long as she has never been in any trouble and can hold a job and has a place to live
2006-06-09 19:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DESPITE WHAT PPL SAY KIDS DONT ALWAYS GO TO MOMMY. JUST DONT CHEAT DONT HAVE ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIPS THAT HE KNOWS ABOUT, WATCH YOUR BACK DONT GIVE HIM ANYTHING TO USE AGAINST YOU AND IF YOU KNOW HE PLAYS DIRTY BEAT HIM TO IT. IF HE LOOKS AT YOU WRONG CALL POLICE. JUST BE A GOOD MOTHER, KEEP DIARIES OF WHAT HE DO AND WHEN HE DO IT........................BE CAREFUL ITS EASY FROM HIM TO LIE
2006-06-09 20:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by mrsurgtech09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children almost allways go to mommy. exceptional cases may be unfit parenting.
2006-06-09 19:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by thirtytwo_characters_2_work_with 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be so sure about this and bragging about it. For all he knows that kid he's raising isn't really his and only his ex knows that.
2006-06-09 21:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a good lawyer, if he's succeeded once, it will be easier for him to a second time...get a lawyer, watch your P's and Q's...and fight him all the way.
2006-06-09 23:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better talk to a lawyer
2006-06-09 19:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by tbiluvu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋