how dose a no-homo turn gay?
plz tell me this is very scary
2006-06-09 12:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by kerno sandler 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Homosexuals don't "turn" gay; they are born that way. And homosexuality is nothing to be scared about. There is an organization that can help you with your scary thoughts. It's called PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). So whether you are worried about possibly being gay or you are worried about a friend, they are there to support you 100%.
General site: http://www.pflag.org/
Site for "Getting Support - Coming Out" for GLBT Persons:
http://www.pflag.org/For_GLBT_Persons.comingout_glbt.0.html
Also Yahoo Answers has a category for LGBT that's under "Cultures & Groups" that is under "Society & Culture." Don't hesitate to post more questions over there, OK?
2006-06-09 12:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Janine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, there are several ideas tossed about on non-homosexuals turning gay.
Some think that being gay is inborn, ie. a gene that makes one gay, so you might start out straight, but discover that yes, in fact, you are gay by genetic inheritance.
Some think that homosexuality is learned behaviour, i.e. watch, learn and do it, or be seduced or taught, try it and like it and stay that way.
Others think that it is a fee choice because of discomfort of some kind with the OTHER sex, ie. therefore it's safer to be with the sex one IS.
Still others think that homosexuality is the result of an abuse issue as a child, ie. a boy abused by his mother tends to identify more with his father.
NOT scary at all, just humanity at work (and play).
2006-06-09 19:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bisexual and I can tell you that I never 'turned' into what I am, I have always been this way. I don't see why you are affraid. If you think your friend "turned gay" you're wrong, they always were but never told you. If you think you may be "turning gay" I can't say that you are 100 percent wrong because everyone is different, but I certainly wouldn't believe you. You must have just been in denial until now or something. I wish you didn't find this frightening... It's normal and perfectly okay.
2006-06-09 19:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by mad_fem_bot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't.
They come out of hiding maybe if thats what you're thinking about. But you don't just turn gay. Its not like a disease.
2006-06-09 19:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Brazil! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't...they always were gay but they probably didnt have anyone to be gay with. everyone has a gay cousin or somehting, the guy who was jumping rope while you were playing basketball
2006-06-09 22:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by adjf a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is a Life style choice, you simply choose it , and be prepared for the consequences, Not recommended...
2006-06-09 19:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think people "turn gay". Either you are or you aren't, or you're not sure and go the bi route.
2006-06-09 19:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by colorados_lost_rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?You don't just turn gay.You are born like gay,and you die like a gay.I mean,i am a living example.You can hide that you are gay,but you are a gay.Your environment can suppress it but still,you are gay.And so one...
2006-06-09 19:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by kuzman86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're curious huh??? get off he fence hun. choose a side, you've been observing both gardens long enough. now make a decision.
2006-06-09 19:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to dose a guy..........hmm....well you would start with 3 parts arsenic and one part lace and then.........
sheesh...
2006-06-09 19:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋