Could you please give your age when asking questions esp of a sexual nature so we can give appropiate answers?

Question

Nothing pervey just so many sexual or how do I get him to notice me type questions are comming from people here, many from young teenagers that it would really help, those who want to help the answer appropiate for your age.

Plus country as they have diff laws

Such as how a 17-19 or 21-25 year old could get attention from a guy they like is totally different to how a 13 year old should do. These are serious questions and us giving the wrong answer could land you in a lot of trouble.

We are trying to help. Help us help you not give advice that will hurt you or be too lame if you are old enough to handle more serious stuff.


Plus some has legal consequences

This is only when asking stuff... As said I dont give a hoot and neither should anyone else unless appropate.


Its not about getting thrills.
And not just for me but all.

Ie its no good us answering if someone should try anal sex and how to do it if they are 12... Then it would be no fing way... if much older then could give safety tips...Or if they should sleep with a bloke if too young.

Likewise what a 13 and what a 19 year old should be doing to get attention are different... its just people dont say how old they are so we don't know how to answer.

M gurl whatever you do dont give contact details of any nature to me or anyone else. Im nice but you dont know that... And many here look sus and thats comming from someone open, some very sus wanting to meet up with young folk... I always say dont meet anyone here... too risky. but age thing is just logical...

Mr T you misunderstand...

By legal stuff I mean that in the uk and other countries the age of concent is 16, in the us for some dumb reason 18.

So saying don't want to say go do it at 17 and the poor guy gets arrested for doing nothing wrong so weren't threatening anyone...

Likewise as said suggestions alsong the lines of how do I get him to notice me ?

Replied with. Play strip poker, loose (all the way) then start playing favours/ winner says do / looser does...


May be fine for a 17 or 19 year old...

But may be a bit much for a 12 year old with a crush...

Get the idea now?

As said all for the free speach and help and advice...

For those who know and will answer explicitly to younger folk on they need to know the truth no bullshit basis...

But it helps us to answer them with suggestions that help not hurt...


Likewise the other way around if they are 19 and in college...

Suggesting a date at a bowling alley may be a bit tame for 19yr old couples.

Thanks most of you got the point... And to the kids this is aimed at . I and others WILL answer your questions honestly and in detail whatever your age. but the age thing is more to do with what we suggest you do...

Want you to be happy and successful, not hurt and things like first times kisses and more messed up in a way you regret.

Answer 1

I think you make a good point. However, I think that if the person does not give their age, they are probably a young teenager, so always reply in that way. Also people should remember that youngsters read all the answers, no matter how age appropriate it may be (after all, teenagers often like to 'sneak a peek' at top shelf magazines!)

By the way, what is wrong having a 'bowling' date? When you are older, it gives him (or her!) a legitimate reason to put their arms around the other 'to show them how to bowl' without it seeming like too much of a come-on - and is much less embarrassing than the cough before the arm round the shoulder in the cinema!

Thanks for bringing this to people's attention - it is something that should be taken into consideration when answering questions

Answer 2

Wow, Legal stuff and the chance of being in trouble.

Do you know what you are doing??

If you have a problem with this site, I am sure there are channels you can go through to get that sorted.

I am sad that people who are pre teens come to this site for advise, and sadder that they feel it necessary to not give their age.

Yes, this site could be run much better, but that is not my, or our, fault.

Do not threaten me or others with legal consequences.

For one, you have just killed your daughters/sons faith in free speech.

For another, you have also killed their trust in you.

Well done.

Answer 3

i totally agree, sometimes i look at the question and although i may have impute i do not answer because i don't know the age, plus all the avatars look like we are 13 years old, i am 24 btw

Answer 4

if you don't want to give specific age give age range 10-12, 11-13 etc - in reality sex should be for marriage & you should be thinking of something else at this age!!

Answer 5

4 real some ppl ask some Q's and they could be 10,13,17 or whatever that's what I'm do next out my age (13)

Answer 6

I don't ask questions of sexual nature, b/c I pay attention in Health class

Answer 7

Thank you!! it's rather long, but to the point and necessary. Someone should reiterate this as it becomes removed.

Answer 8

I am 1 week old, I am a newborn. What else do you wanna know?

Answer 9

Ok,but I never give questions with my age that's dangerous!but your right about what your saying!

Answer 10

Sure..i think that is a great idea and I have no problem with it.