and also tell me abt masturbation for gals?i personally feel nothings wrong abt guyz masturbating....we just had an argument..hes around 26
2006-06-09 12:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by kewl l 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
masturbation for gals, is fun to watch.
2006-06-09 12:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question is why does your boyfriend think it is unhealthy? Does he have some deep seated religious beliefs that keep him from enjoying this activity? Does he think it will diminish his relationship with you? Or does he believe it is something only "bad" boys and girls do? Masturbation can be a wonderful way to enhance your sex life, share activities and help men build stamina.
Masturbation for her can be a fantastic way to learn more about your body. Explore the different areas of sensitivity and what feels the best to you. Use your hands to learn what feels good, what areas are more sensitive, what areas can continue to keep the the sensations heightened and what areas actually trigger the orgasm. The clitoris is the only structure that has no other biological function except sexual activity. If you can learn how to have good orgasms on your own, you can lead your lover to the areas and types of stimulation that are the best for you and how to prolong the play. There are thousands of vibrators on the market. I suggest you start simple and small and find what you like. Explore this together and find a new way to enjoy each other. Go shopping for toys together. Get over your embarrassment and take this opportunity to enhance your enjoyment. God made our bodies for pleasure and there is nothing wrong with exploring that. Communication is the key, learn to be open, talk, ask and explore and you will see how much it can enhance your sexual life.
2006-06-09 19:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by drdenise092000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is to not only just a releasing of sperm when having ejaculations, it also helps when having intimacy with the lover and it helps to know ownself the penis and to release the sexual feeling. Many of a time vibrator is a toy that girls use to masturbate their ownself. maybe you can walk into a sex toy shop to look for a vibrator. as long as masturbation is not excessives, it should not be unhealthy for your boyfriend.
2006-06-09 20:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be messed up in the head. It is very healthy and normal for both guys and girls to masturbate. I think it's very hot and sexy to watch girls masturbate. My ex girlfriend used to sit on my chest and finger herself right in front of me. Basically, girls can use just about anything to masturbate with. They can use their fingers,dildos,vibrators,some girls use tampons, and just about anything else you want to put in your vagina. If your boyfriend don't like it, then he doesn't have to watch. Have fun enjoying yourself.
2006-06-09 22:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by TommyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up,and take some biology book and read something about it.It's safer than having sex every night(if you are ninfoman)and perfectly healthy.Plus it's great stress therapy.Trust me.
2006-06-09 19:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by kuzman86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this place, Freakin Dr. Laura on meth? Do people really need advice on whether or not they should masturbate?!
2006-06-09 21:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Damn those pink elephants! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guys dont jerk off when they are younger or even when they are grown, they will never know what they like in bed or how to use their weenisess
2006-06-10 03:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is human nature and much safer then sex. in fact on french tv they showed monkeys doing that when other monkey's were fornicating! would he rather u cheat on him. tell him to grow up and not to be uptight and pretend he has never done it.
2006-06-09 19:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that masturbating is bad and very unhealthy.Girls .....or guys shouldn't masturbate...it's really gross.
2006-06-09 19:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋