every girl he has ever told me he's liked is fake and anerxic looking, why did he marry me, a girl that looks nothing like that. im not huge or anything but im not fake at all or super thin
2006-06-09 12:08:52 · 29 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Apparently, he finally looked past the desires of his little head and that gave his heart a chance to fall in love with you...a complete, normal package. You must be a very special young lady to have won his heart. Enjoy that love!
2006-06-09 12:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by ilse72 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your husband obviously does NOT "only like itty bitty girls with big boobs". He must have like you (sorry LOVED you) he married you!
Us guys always wonder if the grass is greener so to speak. It is not unusual for us to look at women who are different to our wives. Notice I said "different" that does not mean better or preferable, its just a curiosity thing for most of us I am sure.
It doesn't mean he doesn't love you for who you are. So hang up that insecurity and be confident that the man married you for who you are and loves you. If he really wanted a skinny bint he'd have married one.
And there endeth this lesson!
Sorry guys if I given away any of our secrets but he girl needed reassurance!
2006-06-09 12:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl some men look at is different than the girl he marries. You were marriage material so he chose you to be his wife. Its a certain instinct you have when you chose the one you want to be with for life. itty bitty girls with big boobs are all on the outside. Its whats inside that counts.
2006-06-09 12:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The itty bitty girls are fun to look at, but when it comes to raising his kids being there etc. Your the only one he would consider doing that. I mean it like guys want a Carmen Electra or Angelina Jolie for a fun time, but not wife material.......we'll I guess I can only speak for myself on that one fellas. Your fine though because you husband really does love you.
2006-06-09 12:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married you because he loves you and finds you attractive. Every guy has some kind of fantasy type girl that they think is hot - and it doesn't always look like their wife. The key word is fantasy - it's something to look at, but not something that is in reality.
2006-06-09 12:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife's not anything like the majority of women I look at either- but that's cos I look at all women!!
Fortunately for her, I didn't marry her because of her body. I just forget what I did marry her for, but it wasn't money, I can guarantee that!
Luckily, I have the perfect body and I'm a real catch, so she can't complain. ;0)
2006-06-09 12:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy that he obviously loves you and married you!
As long as you two both turn each other on, I wouldn't worry about it. This just tells you that what's the most important to your husband is what's on the inside.
2006-06-09 12:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by thinkofasong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married you. That says a lot. He must have liked enough things about you to marry you. Maybe you don't really know what he likes. Maybe you are just very insecure.
2006-06-09 12:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you resemble his mother or sister in looks or character? What he grew up around affects his sub conscience.
I inevitably married a man that resembles the way my father looked in my youth, however they have very different personalties.
2006-06-09 13:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by thirtiesrok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well two can play that game. Next time he brings it up just tell him you gotta confess and tell him you were always hot for the opposite of what he is.
Sorry but he sounds like a big jerk!
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2006-06-09 13:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋