I know that she's only my cousin, but were really close, were like sisters. There was even a period of time that her and her family lived with us. Okay...heres the problem, shes 13 and shes already had sex. I asked her if she uses protection,and she says no. i have told her parents, but they don't believe me. What should I do so that she dosen't get pregnant and ruin her life?
2006-06-09 12:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by la_dmarma_lyd 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I have told her about deseases and getting pregnant, but she dosen't listen.
2006-06-09 12:14:33 · update #1
u have already warned her. now leave her be.
I know ur concerned. My cuzins and me are really close and sometimes i just wnt to tell them not to do this or that, but u cnt. If u love her ull leave her make her own desicion. the thing is that u dont know the reason why shes doing these. Just like i didnt know why my really close cuzin started hanging out with this guy that just wanted sex from her and would force her to drink she was only 13. She told me later that her parents werent giving her love anymore, so she was searching for love. Thank God she didnt get pregnant. Just pray for her thats all u can do. Dnt mess around in her life cos ur going to wreck ur relationship with ur cuzin.
trust me. my cuzin also tried to get into my business and that hurt so badly. Now we arnt close at all shes a *****. I cnt believe at one time i was worried about her.
so leave her alone. Just be there for her thats all u can do.
ur a good cuzin to be worried....but let her be.
xoxo
2006-06-09 12:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Nita 3 · 9⤊ 2⤋
You can't do much more than you have already really. If her parents are refusing to listen to your warnings, you could try talking to a school nurse or counselor. Her parents have a LEGAL responsibility to do something about their daughter being sexually active, as she is a minor. If they are just turning their backs on it, they are allowing it--and that is NOT legal. Let the authorities put the pressure on. You'll probably make them mad, and maybe even your cousin. Would you rather see her mad, or pregnant, infected with an STD, or dead from AIDS? Sounds harsh? GOOD...because THAT is reality!! gl
2006-06-09 19:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Wilde Enchantress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing tell her that she should ask God to forgive her from her sins. Second thing tell her that she should get saved by the Lord and only him. Third thing you can't stop her from geting pregnant. Fouth thing tell her that she does not need to have sex anymore UNTIL SHE IS MARRIED. Fifth thing let her tell her parents and thet will believe you then.
Good luck with this problem. God bless you and your friend. Have a nice day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-10 12:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Faithhhh,[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her parents this question that u have posted on here so they can see that there daughter is really doing this and they'll belive you.Show your cousin some questions on here how the teens r scared to death of having kids this young.Hope this helps you all.good luck!
2006-06-09 19:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is 13 and is PREGNANT... you need to tell her to use protection. If that doesn't work tell her mom to atleast ake her to the DR. to get birth control. remind her that it is gonna be twice as hard to tell her mom that shes pregnant or has an STD then if she tells her mom she is having sex!
2006-06-09 19:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Devin S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy she is having sex with...maybe talk to her teachers or friends...I don't know if you can STOP her...but if you tell her what might happen (like scare her a little) then she might stop.
2006-06-09 19:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by chickenfat93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a planned parenthood center and tell her to get birth control.
2006-06-09 19:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she gets pregnant her bf will probably break up with her
2006-06-09 20:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bambi; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of her problems you are a cousin not her mother.. i no you love her ...so let her go...
2006-06-09 19:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chastity belt
2006-06-09 19:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by woundshurtless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋