there is a guy i love but i am not sure if he loves me. how can i get him to at least talk to me? help!
2006-06-09 11:49:21 · 13 answers · asked by Labrador Lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Best approach with guys i find is to tell them how you feel without expecting an answer back. Just get out your feelings and when they are ready to talk and open up back, they will.
2006-06-09 11:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, I know. I'm not a girl. But I think I can answer your question just as well---probably better since I am a guy. Anyhow, as I'm sure everyone else is probably going to tell you, step up and talk to him.(I assume you do have a functioning mouth.) Don't try any of that cute crap, such as adjusting your cleavage or "accidentally" tripping into him. Sure, guys like this stuff, but at the same time we tend to get annoyed by it if it's overdone.
Talk. Talk. Talk....
Talk.
Aria.
*The illnovelist*
PS Don't forget to talk to him.
2006-06-09 18:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't be in love with a guy who hasn't even talked to you. Love is developed it doesn't just happen and talking would have to at least take place to truly know if you love him. It sounds to me that you are in love with his exterior because you clearly know nothing about his interior. My advice would be to get to know him before you say you love him.
2006-06-09 18:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't" love" him..You are young and your hormones are kicking in. Read the 'discover' section on here and you'll see how many hundreds of times this question has been asked by you kids... God!!! Now Labradors...., That's love....in a different way, of course.
2006-06-09 18:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he is interested in! Start a conversation with him on a regular bases. Just act like you want to be his best friend because guys don't like when girls are overly flirty with them!
2006-06-09 18:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rmmpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know i know you said GIRLS ONLY but i help relationships and love situations and i couldn't resist.
You need to talk to him get to know him beeter before someother girl does. Flirt a bit if he flirts back you'll know he likes you.
if not have one of your friends tell him cause i mean this way he'll know right and then he'll search inside himself and start to wonder if he likes you back. then he'll want to get to know you better especially if he thinks you don't know they've told him you like him.
hey if you need anymore help you've got aq friend here you can trust call me Cupid my email= hitches_help@yahoo.com
yours truly Cupid Hey Good Luck!
2006-06-09 18:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weof course, you need to talk with him first and get to know him better. Ask questions about what type of girls he would like to go out with and if what he wants strongly matches up to how you can be towards him, then ask if u can be that one for him!
2006-06-09 18:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk to the guy, how could he even be remotely interested in you??? Just love him from afar.
2006-06-09 18:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't because if hasn't shown you attention now he notgoing too.you need to play hard to get , don't make yourself aviable ,he will walk allover your feelings.have ever seem that movie how to lose an guy in ten days. you do exactly what that movie say . you'll have that you guy eaten out your hands.
2006-06-09 18:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by blueeyegeorgiapeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weell you should talk to him first. when you pass him, say hi and stuff. give him high fives and soon hugs. then ask him to go watch a movie with you and maybe a couple of other people.
2006-06-09 18:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by artfanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋