No friends, family lives far, I feel like noone understand me almost as if I just dont belong in this world. I am extremely stand offish with ppl except some that I can relate to, I've never been asked out on a date, its hard to smile, I feel ugly even though I am not...I dont know whats wrong with me.
2006-06-09 11:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by Xraidedprincess 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Too all of you ignorant bitches, this is a public computer to use for finding work.
You can atleast ask and not ASSUME SO MUCH!!!!!!!
2006-06-09 12:10:53 · update #1
Since in your profile you describe yourself as an Independent Thinker, Creative minded, thoughtful, and respectful person, perhaps you have self esteem but are having a bad day. You describe yourself as someone I'd like to know and I'm sure others would like to get to know you also. If you're extremely stand offish, maybe you once trusted someone and they betrayed your trust so you're careful who you show your true self to and you keep part of your personality private until you get to know them.
Continue being yourself, do something that you can be proud of, something you want to do but you think is hard. When you accomplish that thing, you will be well on your way.
Maybe you could volunteer to teach children to read or visit the elderly or take a class and learn something new. If you're homeless, start a support group for other homeless women or offer to babysit for someones child so they can hold down a job and not be homeless anymore.
2006-06-09 11:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brokn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to remeber that you are very important. You can do things. Try to find places that might help you. Nothing is wrong with you just try to smile even if you dont want too. Help others and maybe someone might help you out more also. You can get temp owrk at daily labor and meet friends there maybe some can help you out finind a place. Go to a shelter too. People love to help homeless if they see they want it. Do you chose to live on streets or are you having a hard time. Ask someone out to the beach or something that dont take money.
2006-06-09 11:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the things you have and appreciate them
1. appreciate and love your self confidence comes from beliving. many people say believing is seeing , but i tell you the truth if you believe in your self you will believe you can do any thing .try it
2.ive never been homless and wont pretend to know what its like but if home is where the heart is , then family must be there as well go to your family no matter how far they are ill bet you still have a home
3 stand down not off, humble your self not for others but the lord change your life to see things in a more positve light anddates homes or selfesteem wont be a problem
4. this one is the hardest for a lot of people, study the bible
2006-06-09 12:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by i got answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it may not sound like something that you want to hear but things work out in the end. if you are unemployed some one WILL hire you.if you are homeless someone WILL see you and what you are trying to do for yourself.if you are desperate DONT be.things will work out ! been there done that for real.keep your head up.you are worth it.they dont say home is where the house is they say home is where the heart is so just stay up thats it!
2006-06-16 09:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Brownsugga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You set goals for yourself, work towards those goals, and daily monitor your progress. You'll notice the more you accomplish, your self esteem and confidence will rise with it. Then one day you will wake up in your own home, in your own bed.
2006-06-09 11:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in God, thank him for what you already have and pray to Him for what you need. You may not see, or hear Him. But Hes listening and Hes just waiting to bless you for the faith you put in Him.
2006-06-16 06:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you have a compy... If your going to make up fake questions look at all aspects before makeing an a s s of yourself
2006-06-09 11:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life, that's all a fight not against our situations, but against the degree of identification we develop with our situations.
2006-06-09 12:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Alberto . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol rotten lol
2006-06-09 11:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by mastapes21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SELL YOUR COMPUTER !
and get a job.......
2006-06-09 11:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋