ok... i just graduated, and i was really upset cuz i had ot leave the person i love and my two best firends. i was crying a lot, (i graduated yesterday) and then, all of a sudden, today, i became all "monotone" in a way. like im sullen, and i've been home all day. i was talking ot my boyfriend for a while, but all of a sudden, for no reason, im starting to almost "not care" about anything, including having ot leave my bf and my bff's. like im drained of all my energy, and i cant b happy... and my mind is like in a trance where nothing matters to me rite now. but inside, there i am still sane, and i want ot break free from this.. this... whatever it is. the me that is still sane is the me that is righting this. if that makes sense
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-09 11:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by ~♫~ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are just very tired...you just graduated so It was a lot of hard work and stress for the last period of time and now its finished so theres kind of like a black hole and you are drained....Just rest....sleep.....relax....recover, and you will be fine again Im sure. How do i know? if you relaly didnt care anymore you would not have written this question reaching out for people to help you. All the best!
2006-06-09 11:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look up bereavement... Most people think that bereavement is related to death. But death is only the end. The end of your life as a high school student is a kind of death, or ending. It is so because it is something you can not change, but must happen. You are and will continue every stage of bereavement until you have complete acceptance.
These are some of the things you will experience.
Depression
Bargaining
Anger
Disbelief
Acceptance
Not necessarily in that order. I don't have my Psych books handy to put them in order. But, you will know them.
2006-06-16 02:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by gejepsen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome into the realm of the Soul. Full of dirt, full of glory. Full of sorrows, full of greatness. Full of hate for life full of love for life. Full of silence full of bangs. It starts with a bang and ends with a whimper, it starts with a whimper it ends with a blast. It is complicated it is a maze it kills you slowly it massacrates you and by killing you makes you feel alive. Dull to be beaten. Beaten to bounce back. Hit to be ashamed. Grovelling into the dust to learn humilation, the mark of Cain, yet do not touch Cain, despair and down and up again and straight in a line and then a curve.
To the God Unknown.
2006-06-09 20:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Alberto . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋