My friend married this women mail-order from Jamacia. After two years he began to notice her changing quite dramaticaly. Then one day he came home and found her with another man . She suddenly tells him that she has a child in Jamacia and if he does'nt pay for his way over to the states she will leave him for this other man. Does anyone have any suggestions about what options my friend may have? I believe she just used him to get her citizenship. Is it possible to have her deported for breaking a contract of marriage?And, if so is she liable for any suffering my friend is or will be going through? All help is greatly appreciated.
2006-06-09 11:37:18 · 16 answers · asked by chemhead102 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would help her pack and take her things to h the other mans house
2006-06-09 11:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, are you sure there was a contract, and that it has a clause on adultery? You may also want to check into the local laws, as here in N.C. it is actually punishable by up to three years in jail. Bible Belt being what it is.... But if nothing else, I would pack her bags and tell her to call the guy... good riddance to her. I have come to realize over time that MOST women that cheat, are very likely to do so again. Good luck!
2006-06-09 18:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by nonya_askme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't condone a vindictive course of action- but your friend would be well within his rights to divorce her and seeing as she was the one having the affair, that can't bode well for her rights. The added complication of a child she never told him about and her expectation for him to pay for this child to come to the US won't help her case and will strengthen his. He may not need to mention citizenship- once the paperwork is put before the Courts, they will see for themselves.
2006-06-09 18:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by darth_timon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to learn how to spell.
You got what you deserved (I assume your "friend" is you). What a pathetic thing to do, get a mail-order bride from Jamaica. Go ahead, try to report her to the immigration authorities. You'll find yourself just as guilty for committing immigration fraud, and while she may get deported, you'll end up in the big house. Who knows, you may even end up as someone's "wife" there.
2006-06-09 18:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by General Jack D. Ripper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can get counseling or they can split up. I doubt she is liable for any suffering but he might be able to do something about the greencard/citizenship thing. Have him check with a lawyer.
2006-06-09 18:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by profghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the rebels answer's vote him as best answer let her go destry his life with her selfish ways she 's not worth even asking the question recourse only shows you cared and she shouldn't get that much credit from you at this point.
2006-06-10 02:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can divorce her, or take her to court and report what is going on,so that he don't get into any trouble for helping her to get here green card. Even though he loves her.
They should seperate for six months, then get a divorce, and he can marry someone closer, who doesn't need a green card.
2006-06-09 18:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by xzenea_z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend made a big mistake..now he has to pay...he should on known better..doing that...( bet he wants to mail back where he got her) but too late...it is better that he lets her go and let her use the other guy....he needs to let her go...
2006-06-09 18:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is a idiot for marring a mail order bride in the first place
2006-06-09 18:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he paid for. He should see if he can get his money back and return the merchandise.
2006-06-09 18:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋