I don't like him at all!!!
2006-06-09 11:03:02 · 30 answers · asked by cherrybloom24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would ask your step-mom why she is so adament about you going out with him. She probably feels she can choose who is best for you rather than who you would choose. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with her, but if you are able to talk to her as though she were your real mom, let her know how you feel. There is always a reason for everything, and she definitely has one.......find out what it is.
2006-06-22 14:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to discuss this with you step-mom. Don't raise your voice; discuss this intelligently. You may want to turn the issue back to her nicely asking, "How would you like to go out and spend time with someone that you don't like?" (If you know someone that your step-mom doesn't like, substitute that name...you may persuade her.
That being said, you may not have much luck. I have remarkably little information about your family and you, but if your step-mom is "making" you go out with someone, she may have control issues. If this is the case, you will not be able to dissuade her.
On the other hand, did you do or say anything to let your step-mom think that you your reasoning or attitude is "unsound?" She may be trying to make decisions for you based on "doing whats right for you." If that is true, she is still trying to control or "help" too much.
Just remember, if you do talk to her, you must be rational, calm and logical. That is your only chance to dissuade her and allow you to make your own choices.
Good luck to you.
2006-06-23 09:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Edward K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your own MOM. Tell your father. You don't have to go out with anyone you don't want to. Your step-mom is out of line forcing an arrangement like this!
If your DAD doesn't listen tell your GRANMA or GRANPA. (make sure it's your DADs parents)
Step -MOM has really no say so over you...She's not biologically connected to you. She's only your DAD's present wife and that's all she is.
2006-06-23 06:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your step-mother should know better then to try to force you to go out with anybody. Talk to your dad about this, and he should take care of it. I do not know how old you are, but that should be your choice and yours alone. If things get worse then tell somebody you trust , an aunt or your mother just get this resolved. GOOD LUCK keep your chin up it will all work out.
2006-06-23 00:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by shell-b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you talk to your dad? If so try to talk to him. If not tell the boy your step-mom "likes" him and say it in a sinister way. Maybe he'll get scared and take off.
2006-06-23 12:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Grandma Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him not like you then maybe he will tell step mom and oh hell I don't know. Tell your step mom that you are pregnant and it is his. See if that works
2006-06-23 11:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by ^v^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i will talk to my mom first and let her know how i feel but if that does not work then i will talk to the guy and let him know that i really do not have any type of feeling for him and hopefully he will understand and move on
2006-06-22 17:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by vivianowusu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have a good time. You never know what might happen and if you still are not interested then at least you tried and she cant be upset about that.
2006-06-23 16:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by belli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go out with him say that u dont like him and that u wont to go out with some one that u wont 2 go out with.
2006-06-23 17:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Andria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going out with him, how is your step mother going to force you to date someone? That is absurd.
2006-06-22 22:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋