i think i love my best friend and he doesnt think of me as more than a friend. but he flirts with me. and i have told him how i feel and he flirts more. and i dont know what to do cause theres other guys i wanna date that like me but i dont wanna lose my chance with the one i really love? i dont know what i should do. wait for him?? but what about the others?
2006-06-09 10:45:48 · 15 answers · asked by Racheal M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO NOT WAIT ON HIM. He knows how you feel and his flirtation is merely a beginning of playing your emotions. What you should do IS date someone else and then see how he responds he's probably going to get mad. You dating someone else will probably give you that chance you want with him. Try it.
2006-06-09 10:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything you can do, I had that same problem, but then i found someone else, and then i found out that my best friend liked me and i was mad at myself for not waiting, and i still am. But i realized that u could think that ur in love, but ur not always, i would say take the chance now, keep persisting and if he doesnt feel the same way u have to move on, if u dont he will start getting annoyed. Or go out with someone else now and see if you feel the same way about the new guy, then you know that it wasn't real love. It might have been chemistry, but u will never know unless he took the chance.
2006-06-09 17:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by chellegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey is messing with your head. He is taking advantage of your feelings, don't get me wrong, I don't think he is trying to hurt you or anything. He probably think it's cute, start telling yourself everyday that he is just a friend and that is it. Become disinterested in him as far as your strong feelings for him. Let it go, and maybe when you are not interested anymore he will learn that he likes you more than he knows. That is always the case, don't lose a friend, be a friend. Good luck.
2006-06-09 17:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately move on. Games only lead to heartache. Give another guy a chance and see if that will work. Just make sure you are always taking care of yourself first and not worried about others.
2006-06-09 17:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him you want to be with him and if he wants to then take a chance. But sounds to me like he does not feel the same way about you. If that is the case then go out with other guys, don't wait for him. If you two are ment to be together then it will be. DEE DEE DEE!!!
2006-06-09 17:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by princessaranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he'll come around when he sees you dating other guys, but it's not worth losing a good friendship over. Wouldn't you rather have him in your life as a friend than not at all? Good luck!
2006-06-09 17:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, take things to another level you abviously told him the way you feel, so my advice be the aggressive one (guys love it) make a move.
2006-06-09 17:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by ramon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl u do not need him hes just tryin to make u think he likes u but he doesn't so to test him get another guy and see if he gets jealous if he does he like u but dont get to caught up and if he does not then hes just playin with ur emotions
2006-06-09 17:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't feel the same, there's nothing you can do. Try to move on. He may come back to you later, if the feelings are truly there.
2006-06-09 17:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep on worrying about it you will not pay attention on your further goals and and maybe just go on and maybe he will come to you or maybe the one you really love is that peron you really love and maybe you dont really love that person and you then realize that that friend was your true love.
2006-06-09 17:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋