It just can't be. Someone explain it to me.
2006-06-09 10:23:51 · 38 answers · asked by dsfadfsadf s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I married my husband Ted because of his looks. At the time, my 10 year old daughter asked me who was I going to talk to. She was smarter than I was. He couldn't even carry on a conversation unless I lowered myself to a 2nd grade topic. But he was so handsome I had to make him mine. Life was very lonely for 9 years. I never really loved him for himself and we divorced when he deserted me for a crack house in Houston.
I think it's wrong to spend time with someone just because of good looks. It's not fair to that person, but it's a popular custom. There's no future in it and you can't build a foundation for the future on looks alone. .....)(
2006-06-09 10:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by MissKathleen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you will eventually get bored with her looks because there are so many pretty women's in the world. You should dig deep within you and her to try to find something else to like about her hopefully you will. If that don't work give your relationship some space, sometimes when your away from some one you care about you'll
realize that you care more than what you thought, and when you two come back together the relationship will mean so much more. If you realize that all you care about is her looks then you should end the relation before she gets hurt worst.
2006-06-09 10:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by infinityyyyyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will answer with a couple of questions for you to wonder about this!
What would happen should you marry your girlfriend and if she gets pregnant and ugly and shouldn't she get in the previous shape again after marriage and kids?
What would happen should she get ill and have to follow treatments that make her beauty fade away?
What will happen when she'll begin to pile up cellulitis and some stretchmarks?
I think you're calling LOVE something else! But good luck. Just hope she's not with you for the same reason as it would be pretty sad to be dropped should your sixpack happen to become filled with fats sooner or later!
Good Luck
2006-06-09 10:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to keep it real, isn't that what we all want? Someone who looks good, I mean come on that is the first thing you see, is the physical. Now, if you can't get anything else from your relationship and there is no substance, then maybe she shouldn't be your girlfriend honey bun, that is what we call a booty call or a f*** buddy. So maybe you should drop her status as your woman and give her a new title.
2006-06-09 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world is coming to be a cruel place,but there are still some good hearted people out there your just lucky if you turn out to be one of them. Dont get me wrong everyone wants to be hot and everyone want to have the best looking date on there arms. but let me give you some advice that came in handy to me. lets be honest everyone notices looks first , but say she so hot right now but then you get to know something about her that is a total turn off then shes not so hot and then when you get to know her more she turns out to be the biggest ***** and shes so ugly you cant stand to look at her anymore. If you were friends with this one girl and noone really thought that she was that good looking then you realized that everyone was wrong because you know eveything about her and everything you do know is a turn on in her own little way. so yes it is wrong just because your only hurting yourself in the end and you'll realize you cheated your self out of love for looks.
the girl with the big heart,
D
2006-06-09 10:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because looks should not matter its whats inside. You are so wrong for u to do that.
2006-06-09 10:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say its wrong so much as id say its pointless. What do u want out of a relationship? If she cant provide that thn cut her off
2006-06-09 10:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong to be with her because of her looks if she has nothin else to bring to the table then dump her and if her the sex is other reason still dump her and don't feel bad it happens to the best of us
2006-06-09 10:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is an important reason, but if u dont feel anything for her, theres no point in walking in a road with no end
2006-06-09 10:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by therifleman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the deal- women do not want to be your little trophie when we have so many more qualities. It is definitely wrong
2006-06-09 10:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Destined2beGreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋