do you ever think about him? Ever wonder what happened to him?
2006-06-09 10:22:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Or her, No i did not we both were from the same circle of friends
and the times were early 70s that was a very crazy time and our only purpose in life at the time was to see just how far we could maintain status quo after high school we all delayed college a little to long and though she was the love of my life something in me knew it was not time probably more selfish reasons than good reasons,+ we had the advantage of seeing how are married friends were fairing, and that wasnt to well. .
This still didnt deter her plans in the least, then there was a bad accident which I blamed myself for, One of those life altering accidents there was a lot of pain hurt and regret to pass around,
a lot of unsaid words, and after that our circle never once were
together at the same time ,apart 2 sometimes 3 at a time. but that was it as far as me i remember that exact hour every year.
One day maybe we both can find the courage to atleast talk
together rather than thru a third person, Until that time I will never know the answers to questions i have carried for decades, other than to say No i did not Marry my first love, why i truly may never know.Now that was a lot of life in a few short paragraphs, so you can summize i did leave a little out. But you have enough for your question. Oh i dont mind typing this but i really dont want to revisit it so dont consider this for your best, because it wasnt my best..... JuJu
2006-06-09 13:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jujeaux 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I married my "first" love when I was 18. And I think about her rarely, since it was quite a long time ago, and the marriage lasted less than 2 years. It was a "love" that should've stayed in High School. Heck, all these years later I'm still learning what love is, and that wasn't it...that was infatuation and lust.
The last I heard she was a doctor somewhere.
2006-06-09 17:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by gotalife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He was killed Thanksgiving Day in '81 changing a tire on the way from picking up some orphans to have dinner with his family. He was such a wonderful guy. It is all these years later and I still miss him. So I married my second first love!
2006-06-10 19:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hippie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married but my first love and I are no longer together. We still talk but I'm now in a long relationship with the love of my life and one day we'll get married. I think your first love is generally not the person you marry.... It's rare but high school sweethearts do marry so it works either way.
2006-06-09 17:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first "real" love (brushes back the dust and cobwebs in her mind)....no I didn't, he finished college and I was sure we would get married, but he wanted to do some other things before he committed, but I couldn't wait for him (sigh) long story of impatient youth...I hardly ever think about him, I don't think we would have made it anyway, I have heard through the grapevine about him from time to time over the years.
2006-06-09 18:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I didn't and I often wonder where he is now. I'm pretty sure that I am better off to have not married him, but I do still wonder. Also I have had many unrequited loves since then and I onder about them too. Best wishes
2006-06-09 17:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I didn't, but I should have! I was just too young to stick it out, and then I went to one college and he went to another. For years, I felt very bad about the way I treated him.
I do think about him frequently because we are back in touch as of about 9 years ago and we are friends again. I got my chance to apologize when he and his current wife (who was also a friend of ours from high school) came to visit me. We spent the whole day together, laughing and talking together, and I was able to apologize which made me feel so much better.
Since then, we've been in touch with email and phone calls. It has been wonderful to have a chance to talk to them again!! I'll be seeing them both again at our big reunion next year!!
2006-06-10 12:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much like monitorhead stated......18 in 'lust', lasted about 6 months. Silly thing to do, but that is what you did 'back then.'
There was no children or property involved so the divorce was
not messy. I still do see her occasionally in public settings, she
looks away. Once in a supermarket I said we should act like adults now and talk, she agreed. Never talked after that.
2006-06-10 18:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sanitizer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, he found another hole to dive into. I think about him every once in a while but I don't wonder what happened to him. I can imagine that he's in his simple little job living his simple little life and I'm glad I got out when I did.
2006-06-09 17:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't marry my first love and I have no idea what paths his life has taken. I'm not really curious enough to want to know either.
2006-06-09 21:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by genaddt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋