Ok well here we go I am madly in love with my girlfriend of eight months we live together. Recently in the last couple of months she has lied to me about who she was with and what she was doing. Like her ex-fiance. This week she spent the night at a guy friends house when we got in an arguement. Is this wrong. Should I give her another chance I have given her three so far or should I just bail.
2006-06-09 10:15:29 · 30 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump her
2006-06-09 10:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by janetjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to have a relationship without the trust. If she is constantly lying to you how does that make you feel. Love does not conquer all. It seems to me she is not making small little lies. She is making big ones. How do you know she's not cheating on you.
If you give her a fourth chance are you going to give her a fifth one, a sixth one, etc. She doesn't seem to be getting the hint. I think a wake up call is in order. By giving her three chances you are basically telling her to walk all over you. I would break up with her and tell her why. This might give her a wake up call. It doesn't have to be permanent but you do deserve a girl who is not going to lie to you all the time.
Also the question you need to ask yourself is what is the need to lie about who you are with or what you are doing unless she is doing something you shouldn't be.
2006-06-09 17:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to know when enough is enough. Seems like she knows exactly what to say to get another chance. She isn't fully comprehending the consequences of her actions nor how they are hurting you. It makes it hard for someone to be trusted when time after time they let you down. Number of chances all depends on you and how much your willing to give it a try. Personally three is more than enough to know that your at risk of loosing the person you "love". Don't let yourself be a doormat and be stepped on! Good luck!
2006-06-09 17:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bail, when the going gets tough...she turns to putty in others hands...nope...I couldn't live with that after the 2nd chance...Hey mistakes happen but not twice, and you've given her 3...might as well tattoo doormat on your forehead because she is walking all over you.
2006-06-09 17:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey i am sorry but it doesn't sound like you can trust her and you HAVE to have trust or else you haven't got a chance of making it.You already gave her 3 chances??cut your losses and move on...you will be better in the long run and find someone who is worthy of a guy like you! good luck
2006-06-09 17:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you've given 3 chances. Stay with her and you will probably have to give more. Its time to bail.
2006-06-09 17:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how often do you argue. Does she really love you?? if you argue to much there is something wrong with this relationship. Who starts the arguements ?? These questions should be well thought about first dont you think???
2006-06-09 17:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man you can't just dump her if you love her but if you see that there is nothing else you can do maybe you should try other options. Make sure you do what makes you feel the best about you.
2006-06-09 17:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better.....
If she can treat you better, fine. But it sounds like she has some emotions to sort through for herself.
Get your own place, separate for awhile..... get some space to be YOU, without it being all about HER.
Sometimes people don't know what they had until it's gone.
2006-06-15 10:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by wildflower 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she sould respect you and not go to a guys house and stay the night even if they are just friends. she was ither trying to hurt you (and that is wrong when you love someone) or somthing is going on with him and her.
2006-06-09 17:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun the signs are already there . she has been unfaithful and will continue to be unfaithful to you . why would you stay in a relationship like this and torture yourself even more
move on there are better things for you out there
dont be a fool
2006-06-09 17:18:17 · answer #11 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋