i dont know why they have no conciouse in order to do such a thing, but i do know that from the time of conception, their is a heartbeat, this is the first thing to develope, and therefore if you abort this fetus you are actually murdering a human child that has not had the chanceto live a full life the way god had intended it too. for that anyone who has had an abortion, is commiting a major sin in gods eyes by commiting murder
2006-06-09 10:19:45
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answered by eve m 1
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It's important to consider the fact that not everyone feels life begins at the same point. Many people don't consider the fetus a human because for awhile it is simply a bundle of cells, and nothing else. For many, including myself, more is required to consider the fetus a living thing.
And as far as reasons for abortion...I don't think it's fair to make the judgement call of whether or not women should HAVE an abortion. There are many reasons that women feel abortions are the best decisions, and I have to imagine that a woman knows what's best for her.
In many situations, women decide abortion is the best decision because they know they will be unable to care for a child. I've worked with enough unwanted children to appreciate how good of a decision it is to not have a child if you are not prepared.
On the far end of the unfortunate spectrum, women often become pregnant as a result of rape. I don't feel it is fair to force a woman to carry a reminder of such a terrible trauma with her for nine months, unless she feels she is emotionally strong enough to handle that. Many women aren't.
I am strongly pro-choice, and strongly believe that every woman has the right to choose what is best for them. And I don't think it's fair to make judgements without being in the shoes of the woman making the tough decision.
2006-06-09 19:57:25
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answered by judithsr 3
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Sometimes it is hard to understand why someone wouldn't want a child... but it really isn't our place to judge them or their situation. Financially or emotionally it maybe too great of a burden on the Mom or it maybe what is truly best for everyone if the pregnancy is terminated. If a parent will only neglect or abuse the child I think it is the most responsible thing to do in some cases.. rather than put the child in a system that is already over flowing with unwanted or abused children. Of course if the mom was raped or molested a pregnancy would be a horrible reminder of that violation. It would be a wonderful world if every child was conceived out of love and every child was meant to be but this is not a perfect world so termination is a necessary evil.
2006-06-09 17:22:33
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answered by shoelvr 1
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Abortion is a very difficult subject. Its easy for people to say " Oh I would never abort a child!" I must add that it really depends on the individual situation. You cannot know how difficult it is unless you are faced with making this decision. I used to be extremely against it. I used to get really heated when talking about how messed up the people were that had them.
Now though I have been through a similar situation where my partner and I were faced with a very difficult choice. I am grateful we never had to make it.(it was made for us naturally) but since then I do not judge those who have them as we as outsider can not possibly know or understand what that person is really going through. There are case where is it understandable. The mother needs and health should be considered. Although I hope you never have to make such a decision.
Peace to all life.
2006-06-09 17:20:48
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answered by Bern_CH 5
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Honestly, it's in YOUR opinion that those women are murders. To others, it's their body and sometimes the best choice for them. I'm not sure what each case is, but I don't call women murders for having an abortion. I also hope you realize there is a debate whether or not it can be considered murder. Some say life doesn't start until you leave the womb, others say it starts with conception. I say to you...watch what you say.
2006-06-09 17:17:35
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answered by 4eyed zombie 6
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I've never had an abortion or even been pregnant but, I think most women abort their child because they don't want the baby. They're afraid to what would happen if one of their loved ones found out if they were pregnant. So, they do the only thing they think they can do. But, it's not the only thing they can do. I'm pro-choice but more leaning towards anti-abortion.
2006-06-09 17:16:17
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answered by dontcryrockstar 2
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Lets say your 12 year old daughter was raped. She didnt even know what sex was. But she got pregnant. You have 3 options....make your 12 year old go through the humilation of being at school pregnant at 12, Make her have it and give it up for adoption which she still has that humiliation and its not fair for her.... either way she is always gonna have the horrible expeirence of being at school, or she is going to have to leave at age 12.....raise a baby at age 12 that was concieved by violence and a constantly have a horrible memory... or give it to someone else and still have that pain...... Abortion is ok in some circumstances.
2006-06-09 17:15:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Because some people have traumatic experiences as being raped, for instance.
Then you have people, who have "accidents" and know that they won't be able to cope with a family life because they have no money, no family stability and who'd rather prevent a child from suffering.
You can't always judge people's deeds and actions.
Wait for you to find yourself in a difficult situation, without any help around to judge!
Stop those awful generalization! A woman is not just a womb!
2006-06-09 17:30:40
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answered by fabee 6
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ill tell you why i did it....
i was in a relationship with a man, who knocked me up. on accident enev though i was on the pill.
He was living with his ex and never would commit to me....
if i woulda had that baby, it would be starving right now because it wouldnt have a dad to help pay for its food and im just some 21 yr old trying to get on my own feet.
if i woulda had that baby, it woulda suffered its whole life because of me....so if anything, i was NOT selfish, at least i didnt want to ruin a childs life....
and i do feel sad about it very often....i would never even do it again, but I look back and still know that is the right deciosn
2006-06-09 17:18:51
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answered by luchka123 1
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Well, imagine if you are, say, a 14 year old girl who has been raped. You are not ready for a child, you do not want a child, you are not prepared for the physical and emotional complexities of having a child, and you have your whole life ahead of you. How would you feel about abortion now?
2006-06-09 17:14:05
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answered by Anonymous
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