There's this guy that I'm really good friends with during the summer----as much as I'm noticing, and I've been writing him since September, but he hasn't replied since Agust. Guys???? What's up?????? *Pouty face*
2006-06-09 09:53:28 · 21 answers · asked by Shianne S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Who knows, some guys are weird. You're probably too hot forhim anyways.
2006-06-09 09:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by jondogg1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. There are plenty of guys out there. If he's "just a friend" it shouldn't bother that he hasn't answered in a while. Probably has a new girlfriend that's keeping him hot and busy. You are his friend, so that sounds the death knell for you, hun.
If you are secretly lusting him, you may want to be faster on the make next time.
2006-06-23 01:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think my situation almost the same as yours. but the thing is, i got a girl that i know in here, never ever again reply my messages since weeks ago. i feel like i'm lost. probably i need to check for what i've done that make her idle. may be you should do the same thing.
2006-06-22 00:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by azzrie007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men often go through phases of feelings, (like mood swings, but not as dramatic) and we scramble up our feelings. Normally its like, "I feel like she's using me, so I'm not going to talk to her," or "I need to move on, she's not for me." This lasts only a couple of hours; then they come back and grovel at your feet. Others are just plain jerks, so they just stop and shut the other person out. Anyways, hope it helps.
2006-06-23 00:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably isn't answering because he has started something new with someone else, or just hasn't received any of your mail.
If you have a phone number I would call, and if no reply I would forget him..:(
2006-06-09 17:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by WilloW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it but he might just be getting sick of hearing from you me and a friend went through the same thing once and it lasted about a month longer than yours give him space and hell eventually write back!
2006-06-22 15:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by young_louisianaian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ussually guys dosnt send letters to friends.
n my part i do, a lot.
did u said he was your friend in summer? if it was in summer only, some guys are wierd, some of them just have friends to pass the time im sorry.
but hey, isnt he sad or something and dont wana talk to you? one problem girls have is that they have guy friends and they act with them like if they where another girl. girls consider guys like a good friend but we are friends of girls sometimes because we like them and we are all the times with them because we are tryng to be something more, but then we know that it will be nothing and stay with only friend, but sinse girls think he is just another friend and they act with him like another girl they just say; hey that guy is hot, omg!! alex just asked me out. and girls, sometimes that hurts, you shouldnt be doing that because you never know.
2006-06-09 17:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by jose r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, id write one more letter saying if he dosent reply back the friendship is over.
2006-06-09 17:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by HeatherlyLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be interested, some guys have a problem in saying so...
2006-06-09 16:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly has you on his spam list by now, so stop writing him and find another guy for this summer
2006-06-09 16:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋