ok i like this boy alot but im not sure if he likes me . we always talk alot and he smiles and waves at me when ever he see's me some were . but im not really sure if he like me i mean we are friends and all but if i ask him i think it mite rune our friend ship !!
please no mean answers like saying im to young or stuff like that cause i really do like him and i want some good answers . for all of u that answerd my question nicely thank you alot
2006-06-09 09:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Why not give it a chance! The best relationships come from strong friendships. Now just because you have a relationship with him and it doesn't work out doesn't mean you can't be friends! That just means that you guys weren't good as a couple. That is it. Don't put love on hold go for it!
2006-06-09 09:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by 20mommy05 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good question. The best thing to do would be to find out if he likes you romantically or not. Talk to some of his friends, or even ask him straight out. Honesty is always the best policy and I don't think it would ruin the friendship if you're straight up about it. Just say something like "do you want to be friends or take it further?" It's pretty neutral. Chances are he probably doesn't quite know how he feels about you. Guys don't sit around analysing their feelings like girls do, so bringing it out in the open might prompt him to sit down with himself and decide what he wants to do. Good luck!
PS. By the signs, I'd say he probably likes you romantically, but I can't be sure. If you're as fine as your avatar, you have nothing to worry about. Ha ha.
2006-06-09 16:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by jas2world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how else are u gunna find out? u have to either ask him, or get another friend to ask him to see if he really likes you, he sounds nice tho. or if yall flirt alot, ask him whut he likes in a girl, and when he answers ask him, "do i got any of the qualities u juss said", and see the way he answers and his body l;anguage and u can prob tell pretty weel the answer, but good luck to you.
2006-06-09 16:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spend time with him. I know how you feel about the whole friendship with a guy. It's always hard to tell if they just love to be friends with you or their friends with you becuase they really like you. I know you prolly don't want to sit around, but just enjoy getting to know him and be his best friend. He's more likely to open his eyes and realize what he has if your always around.
2006-06-09 16:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by cracker2423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M 16 AND WHEN I WAS THIRTEEN I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM, " ASK HIM, DON'T ASK HIM?" THAT'S HOW YOU FEEL ISN'T IT. I ASKED HIM AND WE'VE BEEN GOING OUT SINCE THEN EXCEPT I WAS 12 NOT 13. GO AHEAD. GIVE IT A SHOT. IF YOU NEED ANY MORE ADVICE JUST CALL UPON ME.
2006-06-12 15:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by *S*E*X*Y*e* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hey I have something to tell u but I really don't want it to ruin our friendship then go on to tell him what you want! 99 out of 100 times they like u too!
2006-06-09 16:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Truthordarelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just send him a card telling him how you feel ..that way if he dont like you that way he will have time to think about it without being put on the spot.
2006-06-09 17:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you sholud tell him anyways theres a good chance he will like you back
2006-06-09 17:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by plzvl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a risk u can do it just go for it good luck!
2006-06-09 16:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋