my own friends got me the sack from work.
the same people heve continued to interfere with and ruin my life -making it a misery to the point where ive tried to commit suicide no matter what i do they will not leave me alone -do i go to the police ? this is serious how do i escape this and not make it any worse
2006-06-09 09:37:39 · 25 answers · asked by helenshakles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
definitely report them and see what happens! poor u!!!
2006-06-09 09:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
People who treat you like that should not be considered friends! I understand that you are hurt and upset from being treated so unfairly, but please do not do anything like try to commit suicide. It is easy for someone to sit here and write answers but I have walked in your shoes before. I have had people I have considered friends make my life feel so meaningless that suicide was an option that I considered. The main thing you have to think is that if you do that, then they get the better of you, keep in mind how sucessful you will become without people like that in your life and break off all contact with them, that's what I did. I have moved on and grown as a person, I've made new friends now who mean the world to me and who have helped me through so many difficult times. You can do the same, you do not need to go to the police unless you think that they are jepordising your own safety. Just start a fresh, you'll find that those experiences will help you become a better judge of character and a better person.
2006-06-09 16:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by The haaaaaaaand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are hardly friends!! friends help each other...not cause grief and misery to someone! What did they say to the people/company you work 4 to make them sack u? Is there no way to prove that u haven't done anything wrong in Ur workplace to warrant being sacked?
U could try going to Ur local advice centre-in England we have quite a few helpful places to get advice....most common one i think is the C.A.B, i dint know where you live, but I'm sure there will be an advice place u can go to? If that fails, try a solicitors? It might be a good idea to write down all the things they have done that is causing u so much upset, if you can remember the dates then that would be even better but i u don't know the dates then just be sure 2 write the dates down in future, log everything! everytime they phone you, knock your door, talk to u....look at u in the street! If u can show u aren't provoking who ever it is that is giving you crap then u might be able to have them on mental cruelty, slander, definition of character, harrassment etc...it could work its self into a nice long list! Go to the doctor, explain how low u have been lately, see if there is someone u can talk to at the surgery about all this, plz dont contimplate suicide-why are you going to let these twats get the better of u?! Ur better than that arent u, ur stronger than that! They have seen that they can get to u with what they are doing, so try not to show them how its making u feel. i know its probably easier said than done, but hey, isnt it worth tryin to bluff them in 2 thinking ur fine with what they are doing-maybe they will get bored and leave u alone? If all else fails, have the police on there case! get them buy the short and curly's and call the police everytime!
if u have a new job, explain that u have been getting $hit of these people & 4 ur employers not to take any notice of anyone that rings up to get u sack...if youve been to the solcitor / police then they can back u up?
u could always get an injunction on them....
Dont let them push u in2 anything, especially taking ur own life!
These people are nothing but unhappy, pathetic little twats with no goals in life....otherwise they would concentrate on sorting there own lives out and leaving uu alone!
Good luck & Keep smiling! xx
2006-06-10 23:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, go to your doctor and get some antidepressants. Then get counseling. Then you can worry about what this "friend" did to you. If you want to press charges, you can sue for emotional and physical damages, but you will need proof of that, which would include transcripts of therapy sessions. If they do not leave you alone, you can sue for, not only monitary damages (i.e., the cost of therapy and any antidespressants), but for a written appology and a restraining order. Or you could just go to the police and get a restraining order if you have proof of this person interfering with your life to the point that it is disrupting with your health. You would need recorded times of calls to work (if they do that) the number of times they are around you, and all of those would need to have witnesses.
But you should talk to your lawyer, he/she will have the specifics of what you should/could do.
2006-06-09 16:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by a_little_syco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There not friends so dump them and quick,friends don't do things like that,what i would like to know though is what did they do to get you the sack?or what did you do that they knew about to get you the sack?
2006-06-09 16:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you certainly dont need enemies do you.... your friends can give you all the misery you need. Well, start afresh...will take time and may be lonely to begin with...but a real friend would not do that to you...so ignore them, and get some new friends.
2006-06-09 16:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is so not fair but you have to think do u want her to go to prison and not b m8s or leave it my advice is to get her dun coz think bout it you need that money for the morgage if you have kids u need it for them if u have a car u need it for that there it lots of thing money cant by it it does help all the best get bac to me at xrochymacx@yahoo.co.uk
2006-06-09 16:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by χχ-яσ¢н3ιιχχ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what the sack is.... but LEAVE dont let other people bring you down. Remember theyre only human beings such as yourself dont let them have power over you, its only an illusion.
2006-06-09 16:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by summer_dante 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, do what I did.
Go to a different gym, find some new pal's, and ignore them you once knew.
By ignore I mean agree to everything, then do nothing.
And most importantly, never show them emotion.
You can do it.
2006-06-09 16:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mr T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File harassment charges against them. If you can document that they have called several times and you have asked them repeatedly to stop they are harassing you.
2006-06-09 16:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it and get help yourslef. Nothing is worth taking your own life.
2006-06-09 16:45:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋