my friend dosent know what to do about her boyfriend she thinks hes cheating on her with her bestfriends sister but hes really cheating on her with the best friend(not me), what should she do she wants to break up with him but, he says no and hits her the other day she came over with a black eye she said shes ran into thee door, but of course shes lieing, but it could be her brother. help ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-09 09:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by HeatherlyLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
her names michelle, and shes a recovering alcholic, but she might be drinking again, shes pregnat she dosent know what to do
2006-06-09 09:22:22 · update #1
shes 16 and her boyfriends 22
2006-06-09 09:50:46 · update #2
erm, call the police on the **** and have him arrested.
2006-06-09 09:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you friend need to realise that she is with a man that does care about her cause if he did he would cheat on her beat her when she is pregneat i think she needs to go to the police and tell then what he did and she should get out of that relationship fast a man that hits a woman and knows she does nothing to protect herself from he may continue to do worse or might just kill her try to make her understand that what this guys does it not love but some kind of hold he wants over her life i hope everything works out and that he does get away with hitting your friend again....it is good that you are friend and wants whats best for her! Good luck and may God bless you. and protect her....
2006-06-09 16:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by sugargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl needs to go to a shelter for battered women and seek some counseling. Most women that are abused think that they have nobody else and no options. If you can get her away to a safe house and remove her from the threat, maybe she can think straight. The key is for her to understand that it isn't her fault and that she has options.
If you try to call the police, you run the risk of her not pressing charges and to be honest the police don't do a whole lot for victims of domestic violence.
2006-06-09 16:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Chicago S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call the authorities...someone is abusing her. She needs to spend some time in a battered women's shelter. Not only will she be able to get the help she needs for abuse counselling, she will also get help with her drinking problem and some parenting classes. She needs to step back a bit and prioritize her life. Being in the shelter can help her with that. It doesn't cost her anything to live there so she can get a break for a bit.
2006-06-09 16:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she and her boyfriend?Call the police if it happens again. She needs to get away from him. No one should ever be hit by their BF/GF for any reason. If he says no when she says she wants to break up tell her to call him instead and say its over. If he continues to bother her then she'll need to call the police and have a restraining order put aganist him, espeically if he hits her again. Just be with her during this and help her.
2006-06-09 16:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a counseslor
she needs major help
2006-06-09 20:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anna787 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋