I lose a best friend? How will I get over it.
2006-06-09 09:18:58 · 15 answers · asked by Karbare 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You will get over it in time.
You kind of have to greive and then one day you will look back and it won't bother you (as much).
Just like with death or splitting up with a boyfriend. Same principle.
When it happens; Go out with other friends, keep busy and distracted. Soon you will adjust and move on.
2006-06-09 09:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost a best friend about 4 months ago. At first it is really rough. YOu think about all the fun times u had together and it seems u may never find someone like them again. But once u start hanging out with other friends you realize that life does go on and that someday your going to have a "best friend" again. Based on the reasons why your not friends anymore, maybe try to make the friendship work again.
2006-06-09 16:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a best friend who had been around for 5 years. Then suddenly we were strangers in the same room.
It's been two years. I still cry at night. I've never talked about it to anyone, ever, and I think that is why I'm still sad. Just make sure you deal with it in a healthy way. Don't hold it all inside or miss them too much. Just be happy they were there for a while and that you have the memories to enjoy.
2006-06-09 16:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about loosing a best friend but I do know if she waz really your friend if you start hanging out with some one Else and act like your having a good time she'll be jellos and will miss all the good times you had she'll have to come back (that's only if she waz really your friend.
2006-06-09 16:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by jazzyfreespirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all, a shoulder to cry on and supportive friends and family help a great deal but ultimately anything like that will only get better with time.
A great comparison I once heard was the pain you get when you break your arm or similar, when its there you can't imagine it ever going away but once its gone you can't even really remember what it felt like.
2006-06-09 16:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by number2301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my bf's is moving this summer. But we'll still write and call. She's only going about an gour or 2 away though so it won't be so bad we can still hang out some. just keep in touch and try to make new friends. hang out w/ your other friends.
2006-06-09 16:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my best friend since 2nd grade in our sophomore year of high school because she flipped out (went totally looney) and we stopped speaking. I got over it kinda quickly, but I still think about her from time to time.
2006-06-09 16:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever hear the phrase .... Every thing gets better in time. You make new friends. In time you may not forget your old friends but it won't bother you that their not around either.
2006-06-09 16:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by lizzardkingone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them live on through all the good memories of them. It hurts but at least you were blessed by being thier friend.
2006-06-09 16:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Babyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will never truly get over the loss of a best friend..if they truly were a best friend
2006-06-09 16:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by adh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋