im still young and ready for sex those were our plans i think he is presuring me about doing it i just want some advice about what to do?
2006-06-09 09:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by cutiedownlow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are TWELVE. No matter how ready you think you are - you are NOT. Please take if from someone who wishes she had waited (and I was 16 when I lost it - not 12)... hold on for a lot longer. Make it special. You think it would be now, but you're actually thinking of breaking up with someone just because you didn't get to say goodbye to him. You are not ready. Please be careful. Everyone thinks it won't happen to them, but you can get sexually transmitted diseases from anyone. Even if they tell you they have never had sex. You can get Herpes (which is incurable) just from kissing a guy. You don't even need to have sex. ANY contact with any part of his body can result in an STD (which means he could get it easily from another girl). Please wait. I promise you will regret it if you let him pressure you into having sex. I'm really not trying to lecture you. Just shocked that you think you're ready. If he can't respect that you want to wait, he's not a good guy. Sorry for the rambling. Don't do it.
2006-06-09 09:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by mytib1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're not ready for sex. If you have any doubts then you shouldn't do it. If your boyfriend is pressuring you into having sex then he doesn't love you and it's even more reason not to have sex with him. Get rid of him and find yourself a guy who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
2006-06-09 16:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel , if your ready for sex, then go for it, but if your not, then tell him that your not ready, if he don't understand, break-up with him, but don't dump him cause he pressures you, just find out whats going through his mind, then make a decision.
2006-06-09 16:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rawka'D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young. BREAK UP. TOO YOUNG to be so involved. if it's meant to be, you will automatically join up like there was no break in between. and SEX. please hold on to your virginity. whats the rush? he is not planning to marry you. you want to be used up when you get in your 20's! HAVE SOME DAMN SELF RESPECT YOUNG LADY!
2006-06-09 16:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are in High School. He probably lives near you so call him if you want.
2006-06-09 16:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by ecleeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until YOUR Ready.. don't let anyone else influence u.. even if he's pressurin you.. hormones are raging.. but if he cared he could be patient..
2006-06-09 16:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and get with me after we get know each other first but leave his *** for me k kitten
2006-06-09 16:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-06-09 16:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋