Women never really seem to know what it is that they want. They change their minds like I change underwear and it just doesnt make sense to me. Can anyone explain this please ?
2006-06-09 08:38:39 · 27 answers · asked by mike 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It's an age old question, one that can rarely be explained. Men will always believe women are the most complicated there is to deal with because we can't make up our minds and you are right, in some cases we can't, but I know a few men who are just as complicated and can't decide how they feel about certain things. We're all complicated. Men don't understand women, Women don't understand men. That's a part of life.
2006-06-15 06:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Star 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that women are complicated, it's that men are simple.
But seriously folks, . . . .
When a woman gets involved in a relationship, if she is independent and has her own "stuff" to do, a guy might be attracted to that at first because he likes her strength and the fact that she is a well-rounded person.
Then, after awhile, he gets annoyed that he's not getting as much of her time and attention as he wants, so she starts scaling back on her "stuff" to be more available for him.
Then after another little while, he gets tired of having as much of her attention as he wants and he complains that she doesn't have a life outside of him, and he feels like he is solely responsible for her entertainment, and then she doesn't want him doing anything without her because then she won't have anything to do since she gave up all her activities for him . . . . and that's when he gets mad and calls her needy and demanding.
So who's complicated?
2006-06-09 08:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it is because women really don't know what they want. Well not all the time. I think it is just on some stuff. Sometimes when I am complicated it is just because I am in a tuff situation. Most of the time I just try to make others happy.
2006-06-14 03:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. John Gray ("Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus") writes very good books on the differences between the sexes, and how to deal with them. I recommend "Men, Women, and Relationships." David DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating" program offers incredible insight to the female mind, and you can sign up for free e-newsletters at www.doubleyourdating.com . I've found both of these sources to be great in helping me understand the female psyche . . . . .
2006-06-09 08:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by beast_boy87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you change your underwear a lot! What 20 or 30 times a day?
2006-06-09 08:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think women change their minds alot because of our hormones and also because of all the choices and options we have today just being a lady. Besides, girls are social and we are always talking and hearing different opions and are easily persuaded. But I can't bash on women because I am one. Men are confusing as well... :)
2006-06-09 08:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting people are always growing and changing...Being complex means having depth and interest. Being open to people and life experience makes a person better. Closed minded people and predictable people may be safe - what you see is what you get----but complicated people who are open to change are open to life...they are the best!
2006-06-09 09:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Science has found that both halves of the human brain have somewhat different functions. The brains of women are more lateralized than those of men. That means that women have millions of more neuronal connections between both halves of their brains than men do. That means that they can carry on millions more multiple thought processes simultaneously than men can. It really means that men have one-track-minds. Sorry, nothing personal.
2006-06-16 05:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by correrafan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least women speak their minds about what is good and bad in their lives, and what they want. Men don't say a word--then take off--like you were supposed to have read their mind.
2006-06-09 08:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, we know what we want. And we don't really change our minds all that often - or any more than men do - but if we do, there really is a thought process behind it.
It would help more if I knew what you're referring to, specifically. My guess is that she hasn't really changed her mind, as much as she's decided to tell you what she's thought all along and perhaps hid to protect your feelings.
2006-06-09 08:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋