Why cant she take a hint? i hate that dumb wh#re?

Question

my cousin is a b#### and she has betryed me several times in the past. i dont care if she is family i dont like her company shes negative and im already going through self esteem issues. i dont need her but she keeps calling me to hang out with her and go places .i dont wont to. shes such n idiot who cant understand clues.I want her to leave me the h#ll alone.what should I do?

Answer 1

Try telling her nicely? Then try pushing her off a bridge if the nice way doesn't work.

Answer 2

What is it that binds the two of you? Transportation? Do you rely on her for transportation or she depends on you? Otherwise, I don't see the harm in matter of factly telling her. I would rather not have your company. If you don't "HAVE" to bring her, don't? What's so hard about that.

Since she doesn't have a clue and you are obviously beating around the bush let me say this: "The truth will set you fee." Truthfully tell her how you feel. Sometimes when people don't understand or don't want to understand they just don't. So be brutally honest and let that be the end of it. You don't have to be hostile afterwards. She will not want to be in an envronment where she feels undervalued, either.

Answer 3

i went thru the same issue with a friend i knew since 4th grade (i'm 26) and let me tell you she finally crossed the line and i told her that i was not going to let her continue to disrespect me and i didn't want to be friends with her any longer. She was surprised cause in her eyes she wasn't doing anything wrong. I cut her off my life in the begining of the year and is the best thing i've ever done. You don't need people like that. Be honest and tell her how you feel and if you feel like you can't tell her face to face do it like i did send her an e-mail.

Cutting her off will be the best for you.

Answer 4

I had the same problem. In this case I found out she was talking about me behind my back. I politely called her and said that she is a worthless slut and i do not ever want you to call me again. She never called. Of course I told her a few more cuss words. I was steamed because I didn't like her anayway. She is married to my cousin. Now he does not talk to me because I told his wife off. Oh well

Answer 5

If she is not taking the hints that you are giving that you don't want to be around her, then you have to just be straight forward and tell her. Stop beating around the bush and tell her like it is. Just remember, there is a nice way to say things.

Answer 6

Forgive sweety.

One time Peter went up to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?"

Do you remember what Jesus said to him?

“I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.”

The Bible tells us again and again and again that we are to forgive those who sin against us.

Indeed, Jesus says:

For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Matthew 6:14-15

So the command is clear: Forgive!

But why should you forgive? Why does forgiveness make sense?

Matthew 6:14-15 tells us God won’t forgive us unless we forgive others. That’s a strong motivation, but it doesn’t explain why forgiveness makes sense.

Indeed, on a human level, we can think of many reasons why forgiveness doesn’t seem to make sense.

“He hurt me far more than he understands!”
“He really deserves to lose our friendship!”
“He should get a taste of his own medicine!”
“What she has done to me can never be put right!”
The Bible recognizes the truth in these statements. No book takes sin more seriously than the Bible. Sin is horrible. It destroys people. It destroys relationships. God hates sin.

So why doesn’t God just say to us, “That’s right, sin is horrible! So when someone truly sins against you, you be sure and get him back!”

In today’s text, we have one of the greatest examples of human forgiveness in the Bible. Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery. They are now in his power. He could kill them all, or imprison them for life. Or if that seems too harsh, he could try to work out perfect justice:

If he was a slave for 5 years, each of them will be a slave for five years.
If he was in prison for 8 years, each of them will be in prison for 8 years.
Wouldn’t that be just? Wouldn’t that be right?

But he doesn’t do that. I want us to study this text today to find out why. And if you really understand this reason, it will completely transform your attitude towards forgiveness. So we will look at today’s text under four headings:

Answer 7

Tell her you don't want to hang with her. Don't answer when she calls for you. Change your phone number and don't give her the new one. Nobody is forcing you to be her friend so quit stressing so much about it and just tell her to leave you alone.

Answer 8

Whatever you do...just do it...but try not to say anything painful.I don't know how old you are but it might not matter now.However,anything extreme and resentful could literally hurt her psychologically.Not that I give a damn but it's your bloodline!

Why don't you try getting on her last nerve everytime you kick it with her?It could be fun...messing with her for a change.Just do everything she hates...do it to her,in front of her,and just pound it on her till she gets sick of hanging around you!!!

Answer 9

She sounds too stupid to get it. What you will desire to do I forget approximately her, once you do refer to her basically be blah together with her. If that would not artwork basically tell her. i'm sorry yet being 'relatives' does no longer advise putting uo with crap. I understand solid success.

Answer 10

Tell her that you would like to spend some time without her and you'll call her when you want to hang out with her.