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The pain only continues if you let it. It's hard, but everyone can learn to move on. When my husband left I didn't think I'd ever get over it, but a year later I'm almost totally recovered. Find a good support group.

2006-06-09 07:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0 0

Well first breath... You have to put moving on...One foot in front of the other...i know it hurts and it well always hurt...no matter what any says or does to try to make you feel better. You need to know that it is ok to cry. Crying well make you feel a little better. It well take away some of the stress you are under right now. Alway remmeber to that life does go on. weather you want it to or not. And the pain well never stop but you will be able to hide it in the back of your heart after a while. Then it well only hurt when you think about it. Good luck sweet heart.

2006-06-09 14:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli A 2 · 0 0

Yes. It eventually subside but it does take a long time. You can only move on by living your life. During the process you will really miss that person, but you will also meet new people. Don't be afraid to do so, just be honest with them. Also, don't close your heart to new people. Those people were sent your way for a reason and you shouldn't just turn them away b/c they are not your past love.

2006-06-09 14:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by King H 6 · 0 0

I'm a true believer in if you love someone set them free, if it's meant to be, they'll come back. Sometimes in order to truly appreciate someone you have to be apart. As for the pain of it, the truth is life goes on and although songs and certain things remind you of your loss, it does get easier. Everything heals with time. Hang in there, you'll make it.

2006-06-09 14:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by babyjake 2 · 0 0

Just keep yourself busy.. the first week is the hardest.. and as time goes on its gets easier n easier... Just try to stay away from things that remind you of that person... and kick it with ur family n friends more... Try to be by yourself at the minimum because all you will do is end up thinkin about that person... always think positive.. there is someone out there just for you.

2006-06-09 14:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 1 · 0 0

Lost?
As in he/she dumped you or as in he/she died?
For the former, I have to say that was not the love of your life, but rather a crush you thought was real love. Learn to love yourself and something bigger than you and you will know real love then next time around.
For the latter, you may as well know that more than one person was made for each of us. Losing a love to death is a hard thing, but bring yourself to peace and you will realize they still live in another reality and their love is still connected to you. Give it time and you will be brought to someone new who will give you love again.

2006-06-09 14:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Pain gets easier to live with. If death took someone from you, the pain will never stop, but you will learn to live with it and eventually find a new love.

2006-06-09 14:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by 4th_river 3 · 0 0

NO THE PAIN NEVER STOPS BUT U JUST HAVE TO FIND OTHER THINGS TO OCCUPY YOUR MIND SO THAT YOU WONT SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE THAT WAY HUN JUST KNOW THAT YOUR LIFE HAS TO GO ON AND I'M SURE THAT IF HE COULD TELL U THAT HE WOULD

2006-06-09 16:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0 0

tYea, the pain gets easier day by day. I know it is hard at the beginning but, like with alot of everything else " time can heal wounds" nothing takes them 100% completely away.!.!.! good luck an I wish you the best!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-09 14:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

get involved in doing other things and meeting other people. You bet you can get over being-hurt. later on the pain will stop -try not to dwell on it now!

2006-06-09 14:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0 0

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