i am a 39 year old indian man and my wife is 32 year old lady and we have 2 kids and 15 year of marriege after seeing this topic on net i want to expereance about swinging but i dont know about what my wife want
she not surf the net i dont know wether she know about this topic or not even she like this or not
how i ask my wife about this and how i search this types of couple in india
2006-06-09 07:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by suren_namdev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,
I approached the subject with my wife in a jokey kind of way one night when we were watching something "saucy" on the TV. This always works for us, if anything is the tiny bit sexual, we get the glint on the tv.
This kind of broke the ice with us as a couple, and we decided to sign up to one of the numerous "swingers and contacts" sites. Staying away from the big ones, sexsearch, adultfriendfinder etc. We stumbled on one www.funshag.com.
Ideally we were looking for "monitors" to watch while we played with each other on the camera.
We did this for a few months, and met online a lot of good friends.
We are now about to make our first visit this weekend to "la chambre" in the UK.
Anyway enough waffle. Approach the subject in a fun way, and guage the reception. Use it as a fantasy, and work your way up to making it a reality!!
Flipper
2006-06-13 09:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Shaun B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I"m not sure about in India, but first, talk to your wife. Is she comfortable with another man having sex with her? IF she is not, then DON'T do it, it'll wreck your marriage. I understand the need for adventure, but think about it, would you want your wife to have sex with another man with you watching? Hmm... I don't like that picture... But maybe you do., it's up to you. Just make sure that the both of you agree before you two decide to persue it. Best of luck.
2006-06-09 07:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just so you know most all swinging couples end up divorced...one or the other gets jealous and that is the end of it...definitely talk to your wife about it...good luck...i have a feeling you are going to need it
2006-06-09 07:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirlcansurvive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have respect for your wife, your family and marriage and don't do it. If you can handle your wife being sexed up by some strangers and she's cool with the same, then perhaps you need to reevaluate your marriage.
2006-06-09 07:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a local swingers club on the internet.
2006-06-09 07:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swinging in India - no pun intended, right buddy!!!! Ha - good one.
2006-06-09 07:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋