my brother commited suicide last week..?

Question

and he left me a note that said to follow the signs of his death. what does that mean?

he said in his note that his girlfriend had drove him over the edge....do u think it is true or do u think he was actually murdered?

Answer 1

last week and ur already on here talking about it to strangers....that is something to talk over with a family member you can trust to be your confidant, or a psychologist. not with a bunch of strangers on the internet.

Answer 2

FIRST OF ALL, I'm hoping you're not joking about this suicide, because many people, including myself, have REALLY experienced it in their family. Have some sensitivity about such issues!

SECONDLY: If you are indeed serious, then as his sister you should have known him better than anyone else, including the 'strangers' on Yahoo Answers that you're posing this question to. Correct?

Do you have other brothers and sisters that you can talk to about it? Have you told this to your parents? In either case, I think that if he (really) left such a note, he must have had enugh trust in you that you'd get it, that you'd know exactly what he meant.

Just analyze the most significant events in his life before he passed on, and I have no doubt you'll understand the meaning -- it may take some time and it will hurt you deep inside, but YOU WILL UNDERSTAND...eventually.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Im really sorry your having to go through something like this. No one probably knows what he meant by that statment but him. Try not to look to deep into it. Do you have something in mind that you think it means? Also if you havn't shown the note to anyone your really should make a copy of it show it to the proper authoritys, and if for some reason you are suspicous of someone don't let them know your turning the note over.

Answer 4

in my view i do by no potential make up an excuses for anyone that commits or tries to commit suicide, because of the fact lots of them seek for interest, or they're purely stupid yet subsequently, any reason i'd desire to think of that your chum did this, grew to become into because of the fact she is haunted by using her previous. I recommend, additionally relatives are human beings you have faith and you visit in solace. in case you do not have any relatives then what do you have? and additionally as she looks at her daughters she probable sees her self and he or she maximum like could no longer stand the thought-approximately that ever occurring to them. Its way too a lot for the recommendations to deal with. If some thing haunted your recommendations for 38 years what could you do?

Answer 5

Well, having read all of your other questions, particularly the one about your father and uncle raping you repeatedly and having just gotten out of jail, I would surmise that perhaps he was trying to tell you that they were raping him as well.

In reading your other questions, I saw that you posted a question just under a week ago saying that you were "so so sad." I opened it, thinking it would be about your brother, but you were so so sad because school was out. And then you have a bunch of questions about telephone ring tones and things, all since your brother died. I just think it is strange that you would be concerned about such trivial things if your brother killed himself last week and your rapist father and uncle were harassing you. I'm not sure I'd have the time or mental energy to worry about cell phone music, of all things, if I was dealing with such big issues.

Maybe you'd have better luck deciphering his message if you focussed on that, and left the trivia for a happier time.

Answer 6

Wow, I'm so sorry, and I know that doesn't make you feel any better, i've had some close friends commit suicide and it's not an easy thing to get over, so my apologies to that.
But I really, really hope that you feel better.
that means it really hurt him and maybe he was asking you to be more aware of your surroundings? I don't know suicide is a tough issue. Well I hope that everything turns out well.

Answer 7

Did he give his stuff away? People that are usually thinking of committing suicide give away their most precious things. They can also be withdrawn. not wanting to hang out with their friends or family. Not doing the things they usually do. I know I didn't answer your question but those are the signs of depression. But when a friend or family memeber starts to give away things for no apparent reason, then you know something is very wrong.

Answer 8

You poor girl! Bless your heart! I think he means he let a trail of clues behind as to why he committed suicide. Possibly he was picked on or abused. He thinks you're the person that will be able to put the pieces together.

Answer 9

Well I'm not sure what that means. He may have left a trail of things that lead to where he killed himself. He may have left something else that he wanted you to have. Perhaps the cause of his depression may be to think of the signs leading to it. I don't really know exactly what it may mean. I'm sorry to hear that he did that, you and your family must be going through alot right now. I give you and your family my best wishes.

Answer 10

I'm sorry: I don't know what he meant! But I can tell you to analyze his mistakes and try to live a happy life and appreciate every seconde and if something is bothering you make it stop! Face your fears if it's for the better! There is a meaning to life! Find it... and he will be proud of you!