hi,
I am natasha ,i am 23 yrs old girl , working. I have got some tension in my life and I want some good advice from you, hope you could help me on this , because I dont know with whom I should share this problem,I found about you on the net so I am writing you :
I am having a affair with a boy since last 8 years , I am an MBA worikng in a foreign bank, earning decently good, my family is looking for a good guy for my marraige, but the guy whos name is milind is my boyfriend is just 12th passout just started his business not settled , i said him that u should do some decent job so that I can tell me family abt u , but he doesnt want to do job , he wants to do his business only, I know my family will not accept this(also it is not acceptable to me also, there is an status and education gap between us) I said milind that leave me , he says that how can I leave you(he says I am hungry for money so I want to marry someone else),I said my family will nott accept this , but he is notready
2006-06-09 06:53:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it sounds that this is not the man for you. Since you say your family is looking for you a husband I assume you are Indian or Muslim. Where are you living? If your boyfriend is into illegal activities as his job then if he gets in trouble with the law you are also going to be arrested if you are here in the UAE. I would move along and find someon more suitable.
2006-06-09 07:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by casey m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the love of whatever is Holy to you leave this idiot. He os not right for you and you know why. Find yourself a Man and stop messing with little boys. He needs to find himself a job and prove that he is wirthy of you. You are so much more valuable than what you think. Hope this helps.
2006-06-23 11:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love him and cannot be without him, marry him and deal with the consequences, like maybe the loss of your entire family.
if you think that you love him but are not truly in love with him, end it now, and deal with that loss.
the sooner you choose, the less pain you will have in the long run.
2006-06-22 19:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by hanumistee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋