and it was pretty raunchy, I looked across the room and saw my boss (who is married) and to my surprise,she was underneath a table with one of the strippers. I was just invited to her renewing of her vows with her husband of 20 years. Should I keep this a secret?
2006-06-09 06:30:51 · 36 answers · asked by ? 5 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
I would strongly suggest that you keep the secret to yourself, after all, this poor woman has to go elsewhere to get the attention she doesn't get at home, and obiviously her husband didn't seem to notice that she was gone in the first place, so shame on his lame ***! As for any photo's you may have of this incident....you should forward them to me irishjettergreen@yippeehoo.com
2006-06-11 09:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by larry b 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
LOL. We had a similar situation in our office once and let's just say that so many people knew about it that the secret could not be kept. It caused a HUGE disaster at work. My boss called everyone into a meeting and tried to deny that he was cheating with one of the salespeople. He said it had caused unnecessary problems in his family Can you believe that idiot called the office into a meeting to discuss his personal life???? Needless to say, I think the secret would have been better off being bottled up because both parties involved had spouses and children. I felt bad for the kids. These two are no longer married but they are not dating either.
It was the talk of the office for many months. Certain people were blamed for letting the cat out of the bag. Funny thing about it, those people weren't even the ones who did it. They were persecuted for years to come.
Anyway, if your boss truly is an unfaithful spouse, she will get caught in due time. No need for you to be caught in the middle of it all.
2006-06-09 06:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how close you are with this person. If she is near to you, I would confront her in private. Let her know what you saw. Share your views and listen to hers. Maybe her and her spouse approve of this in eachother. Don't ever tell the spouse, and assure her that it is her business and you don't want to impose. Sometimes when people "cheat" on their spouse, there's a lot more to it. Maybe she needs someone to talk to, so she's acting out. See if you can be of any help, or get her some help. Maybe they need marriage counselling... who knows. But I only think you should say something if you feel comfortable to do so. If you're not close with her, I'd say forget it. It may be wrong in your eyes, as well as many others, but she may have different views. If she was doing this in public, it seems that she doesn't care who knows. If this is the case, her morals may differ anyway.
Regardless this is a very touchy subject. Be sure to have your facts straight if you do decide to confront her. Also be ready to accept any consequences that might bring.
Good luck.
2006-06-09 06:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by heavendreamer84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was she doing under the table? What secret? Girl if your Boss has been married for 20 years, she need to be at the Strip Club and maybe under the table. She seems to still be alive,you need to live a little. and one more thing ,FYI this is the kind of thing that could possibly get you FIRED so mind your own and let her enjoy herself life is just TOO SHORT!
2006-06-09 07:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just crazy! Maybe you should try bringing it up like in a casual conversation with no blame or just jokes. If it's too touchy then just let it go. If she was at a strip club and she was just like getting a lap dance or something like that...that is what happens at strip clubs. You may never know of the agreemement her and her husband have about places like that. It is just your best luck to stay out of it. It shows that your a compassionate person and all, but I would really try and be safe here!
2006-06-09 06:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you don't know the situation. It's more than likely that her husband knows all about her trysts. For all you know, they have some weird fetish going on where she frequents strip clubs as a prequel to a 'night' with her husband. He may have his own arrangement and it might well all be consensual.
Basically, their marriage is their business and nobody elses. It's not your place to judge, much less comment. If you value your job you will put this out of your mind and move on.
It's just not worth the trouble it could bring you!
2006-06-09 06:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ sgrfsh ♪ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless u want to create tension and problems at the workplace-- Yes, keep it a secret.... Act like u did not see her at all!
Also, can there be a posibility that it may have been someone else and not your boss?? A while ago i was at a club and for a good half hour i was mad as hell because i had spotted a guy that i had been seeing dancing and being xtremely friendly w/ other girls in the dance floor, so i decided to confront him, i made my way near to him so he can see me and make him realize that i was up to his game..... well, it turned out it wasn't him, it was someone that resembled him and in the dark, smoky floor looked like my guy!
2006-06-09 06:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is as common as shaking someone's hand now a days. I am sure her husband expects this sort of behavior from her. They probably don't have to leave tips for male waiters or bonuses to her employee's. Hopefully she won't be under the table at ceremony. That might be weird.
2006-06-11 06:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes please do. It's not really your place to tell on her. But u don't have to attend the "renewing of her vows..I feel like "Dear Abby".
Really, let it be. U don't know whats going on at her home. Maybe her husband is having an affair and goes to strip clubs too. Let it be... It ain't your business. No hard intended.
2006-06-09 06:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by garcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-09 06:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by chaselake220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-09 06:32:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋