My 15 year old brother is very disrespectful to my mother. He lies, cheats, and steals. He use to be a good kid but now he has turned into a nightmare. He spends countless hours on the internet and has admitted to smoking weed one time. The family is pretty sure he is having sex also. Is there anyway the family can intervene before this issue gets worse?....People, do you have any answers??
2006-06-09 06:15:31 · 15 answers · asked by Kenya_7 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First, I would take out the internet from the home. Put in your room or something and make sure that you lock up your room. Second, I would keep track of where he is and where he is going at all times. Third, I would speak to him and let him know that things are going to be changing around the house and that there are now rules that need to be followed. Start taking things away, do not buy him clothing or anything that he wants., put him to work or he cannot be getting things for free.
2006-06-09 06:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My sister in regulation the day gone by advised me my 2 females who're 8 years and 10 years are appropriate!! they are no longer take it from me, yet i be responsive to i will take them everywhere, with each individual and almost do something without there being any undesirable manners or behaviour, i will additionally enable them to bypass everywhere without me, understanding they'll make me proud. the youngsters you describe different than your individual sound certainly awful and if my females have been to act in such an appalling way they might quickly be responsive to that it became unacceptable and maximum genuinely would not do it back. you're bringing your daughter as much as understand that for the period of civilised society human beings would desire to abide by ability of the guidelines of solid manners and basically solid behaviour is time-honored. this might make her fare extra perfect as she grows older and as an person heavily isn't at a loss as to a thank you to act in any difficulty. solid for you I say, follow it and be proud to have stand classified ads and limits, you're a great MUM! you additionally are very affected person with human beings's toddlers, I even however having been a nanny have in no way had any difficulty telling human beings's toddlers to act in the event that they are in my corporation particularly in my domicile!
2016-10-30 11:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats easy, tell ur mom to beat him, i'm 15, so i'd know, last year i got a bit out of line, mom beat me, now i just got a recomendation to litterally every school in america, including terrtories like puerto & guam. And am one of the top 5% of students in the US, so yes, beating works. Belt or extension cord.
2006-06-09 06:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not to late to take control. Dr. Phil has a book called "family first" and it addresses this problem. Also family counseling with a therapist who specializes in teenagers would be a way to go. This isn't just his problem it's the family's problem so everybody should go.
2006-06-09 06:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend getting the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapmen, maybe he's just misunderstood.
2006-06-09 06:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg when i read your story it sounded like my son he is also 15,what u do is take things away from him that he really likes,when my son acts up he dont get on the computer,put a password on the computer and dont let him on it until he relizes what he is doing,also get a home drug test to see if he is useing drugs,and tell your mom to whoop his *** ,i still whoop my 15 year olds *** lol..............and dont let him hang out with ppl that infulance him .........
2006-06-09 06:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by vanilla.sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woooo you your parents need to whoop his azz because thats what my mom did and well its never too late bsides if he gets in to the system its too late he will get locked up and will be another statistic hell your mom need to take the internet away all his stuff away and let him know your parents run that house not his azz- and last but least put his azz out that is just tough love he need sto learn to honor thy parents thy days shall be long
2006-06-09 06:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by jcleann13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
an old fashioned a@@ woopin should do the trick , it worked for many years and then all the sudden it is bad , that is how i learned my lessons as a kid .
2006-06-09 06:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was like that except for the weed. I lost EVERYTHING until I behaved myself.
2006-06-09 06:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know just how important his mother is and make understand that he wouldn't be anything without her.
2006-06-09 06:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋