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i met this guy online..i think i'm kinda infatuated but I was thinkin, is this for real? would love really exist in this not so real world of cyber?

2006-06-09 05:17:58 · 26 answers · asked by lizzie 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Yes. You can fall in love with someone over the internet. It is like meeting a guy from a bar. You really don't know what their intentions are or if they are who they claim to be. Love is a risk. You have to be willing to take that chance. Don't live the rest of your life what if. If you get your heart brok- so what, move on with life. I did. I used to talk to someone that I never met. I was falling hard. We talked about everything. Then...poof kramarillo_1 was no more. He disappeared. I did not even have closure. But I got over it. I dust myself off and gave it another shot. I started talking to this other dude. He sounded mean when we spoke on the phone. It sounded like he had no emotion in his voice. He came by plane to see me. After that...game over. Soon after that, I was selling all I owned and traveling with only what could fit in my car to start a new life with him. I truly feel like Cinderella. I have never been more in love. I remember when we started talking.......we would have 5 hour conversations and talk periodically throughout the day. We could not get enough of each other. Even though we were different in many ways.......we completed each other. I am so glad I took that chance. Just imagine if I listened to my friends and family. I would probably be single and lonely once again. I found my other half. But you do have to be careful. There are many crazy people out there. By talking to this person on a regular basis the true side will reveal itself sooner or later. I have experienced the most mannerable person turning into a complete stalker. You will feel it. You know what's good. Good Luck.

2006-06-09 05:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by txchiflada806 2 · 7 0

I had a relationship with someone I met online which lasted for about a year. The hard part was that I'm in the UK and she was in the US so we only met up a few times, although we talked nearly every day. In the end, the distance was too great and we parted as mutual friends. Still chat occasionally.

About 6 months later I met someone on a free online dating site, and now 2 years later, we live together, have a yorkshire terrier called Gizmo and getting married next March.

While these are 2 online relationships that I consider successful, I have to say that I did come across a lot of very weird bunny boilers along the way :-)

2006-06-09 12:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Shadowen 1 · 1 0

I think most people on the internet that meet don't fall in love. However I'm an exception to the rule. I met a guy in the military online nearly four years ago and we've been married for eight months now.

2006-06-09 12:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by sugarcarat 5 · 1 0

I've felt as if I was in love with someone I met on line before but the reality of it is that unless you honestly believe you can ever be together then what's the point? I would love to believe things like that were possible, and maybe they are, but it would take a very special woman who I could truly believe in and know that regardless of any distance between us she would be as sincere and devoted to the goal of finally being together as myself. I never discount the possibility of such an encounter and actually would very much like to meet a younger woman from abroad but the Internet is such a vast and vague world it's difficult to have that kind of faith in it most times.

2006-06-09 12:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0 0

I've connected with a couple of women online and then fell for one so hard I haven't recovered. We had so much in common and when we met in person it was like a dream come true--beyond that really--we exchanged multiple e-mails per day.

I wrote her poetry--she said she cried..

Then she stopped responding suddely one day, and although she still answers the phone when I call and says she wants to meet up again, she always has an excuse to run. I thought I knew her so well, but I wonder who she really is, and I miss her so much. The connection was so incredible... But I guess that's the problem with meeting on-line.

2006-06-09 17:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Karl 2 · 0 0

I met her on a gaming site. We talked for about 8 months everynight. I knew I loved her, & she said she loved me. We had talking about getting married when we were older & stuff like that. Then one day I went to email her, it said her account had been deleted, & I"ve never talked to her again. That was a year ago. IT broke my heart alot. I still think of her alot too. So I'm talking to another girl right now we've been talking since the beginning of January...but I'm trying not to fall in love like I did with the other girl, because if my heart gets broke again I don't know what I will do.

2006-06-09 12:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by kyle 5 · 1 0

I have and I fell very hard for him. He was married and I am too, and after my drunk night of missunderstandings we quit it. I think that if both parties are telling the truth at all times and they both want to have a relationship then it could work out. It sure was alot of fun what he and I had, and if nothing else at least you can remember that you had fun online with your guy. Best wishes

2006-06-09 12:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by colorist 6 · 1 0

to be in love, you must be able to talk to each other face to face. So, you two wont be in love until you meet up. but i have a word of caution for you. Be careful with this guy you are talking to online. He might not be who he thinks he is. So many people have gotten into bad situations because of talking to someone that they dont know. And i personally dont want to see you go through that

2006-06-09 12:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by theone 2 · 1 0

Yes Yes Yes

2006-06-09 12:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Yagami 6 · 1 0

Never!
You cannot meet people on the Internet, you meet people in person not Cyber-space!

2006-06-09 12:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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