When my best friend who is 13 (almost 14) goes swimming with me her pubic hair comes wildly out of the swimsuit--it looks like a hair beast lives down there and it grosses me out!! how can I tell her nicely?
2006-06-09 04:46:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Make a joke out of it and see if she can laugh at it. If you laugh too, you may be able to accept the hairy situation! Good luck!
2006-06-09 04:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to stop looking. I would tell you tell her to consider shaving or do some personal grooming down there, but its her choice and if its not bothering her then you should not be worried about it. But you can suggest a swim suit that covers more of that area. If you are paying that much attention to her like that, maybe you are interested in her?
2006-06-09 11:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by dqchild 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you two are alone with her in her swim suit, ask her, "Are things getting a little bushy?" and glance down at the offending pubic hair. She might not realize it or doesn't know how to take care of it.
2006-06-13 17:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a tremendous eye sight and an amazing explanation?
Why do you concentrate your eyes only on that place, instead of minding swimming?
Either you can ignore or ask her to shave that place. The problem is over.
2006-06-09 11:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what razor or bikini wax she uses. Try to start the convo like that. You need to tell her before someone else does and really hurts her feelings.
2006-06-09 11:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..you can ask her privately (like when you guys are having a "girl talk") if she shaves or trims down there. Then tell her that you do, or are planning to, this way hopefully she will decide to do it also.
2006-06-09 11:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't want to wax/shave it or you don't wanna tell her, go with her shopping for a boyshort swim bottom. i love my boyshorts because they cover that zone and may be getting a new boyshort from Victoria's Secret one of these days. these are bikini bottoms that cover the zone.
2006-06-09 11:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how much you care about her, and that your only saying this to avoid her from embarrasing herself in the future, tell her straight up...ask her would you rather hear it from me...or the guys over there....dont make a big deal out of it
2006-06-09 11:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her out front... tell her you are just concerned that you don't want her to be embarrassed.
or think about if you were in her situation and you didn't know about it. how would you like your best friend to tell you about it? do you want her to just keep quiet? of course you would want her to tell you.
2006-06-09 11:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by PC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about how the celebrities look...
2006-06-09 11:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by DJFresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋