if you're a girl..
i'm funny and pretty (well i'll do) with a good career and friends etc. but had no luck with relationships since i broke up with my last boyfriend at 26. i'm not desperate but sometimes i get gripped by a horrible fear. i get out there and do all the right things but somehow it evades me. is it too late? i totally want to settle down and have kids but it has to be with teh right man..
2006-06-09 04:31:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to ihatebooch -ahh thanks :-)
small point: too late not to late - gawd. i hope my future husband at least grasps basic grammar!
2006-06-09 04:38:09 · update #1
God! I hope not!!!! I have been in several long-term relationships, but when it came down to the question of marriage, I found that the man in question wasn't the one for me. So, now that I am 32, I have become a bit pickier, since I now know what I want. However, I do feel at times that my clock is ticking, when it comes to having healthy children. But, if it happens that I don't meet the man of my dreams until I am 45, I can always adopt.
So, suffice to say, you should definitely wait for the right man. There is nothing wrong w/ you doing this, since one should never settle. It will only bring greater unhappiness in the future.
I find that I relationships find me, when I am not actively seeking them out. Men find me, when they see me doing something that makes me look happy and confident. And, that's what I feel that you should do....take a class, go to the gym, or join a group w/ similar interests.
2006-06-09 04:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late. It just may be that your future partner is out there going through some stuff in his life that will prepare him for you! You've got to believe that your (and his) time will come to be together. I'm the same way. I tend to be a serial monogomist (lol), and there was a very long time between my last partner and the one I am with now. And that's because I wouldn't settle for anything less than what I knew I wanted/needed and deserved. Just hang in there and keep meeting folks, keep dating and keep the possibility open. I know you'll find your true love. Good luck.
2006-06-09 12:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! You're living through the most beautiful period of a woman's life. Now, what I recommend you is, don't let any man know you want to marry, because this gives us the signal you'll cling desperately to the first one that falls in the net. Just let men know you're free and willing to meet them to see what happens.
2006-06-09 11:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Richard III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to start. I am older male, 51, widower and if I choose to, I would start over with a new wife. Just not there yet.
2006-06-09 11:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Midwest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
32 is not too late. But what I would recommend you is to approach the guys you want yourself!!!
If you want the right one, you won't be meeting guys like this often. And if you multiply this probability by the probability that he approaches you, it's low!!!!!! So, take it in your own hands!
2006-06-09 11:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 37....I was married for 18 yrs the first time...Starting over again.....its not too late....Good luck and have fun.
2006-06-09 13:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's never to late even if u are 100 years old u have to wait for the one you want....!
2006-06-09 11:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋