Im 19 and the guy that Im interested in is 35. My mom doesn't have a problem with it now. at first she thought she that he might have been to old but now she thinks that hes great and she likes the fact that he makes me happy. i dont want to get hurt but I cant stop thinkiing that hell want a woman around his age even though he says no and his mother loves me. what to do ? is he to old?
2006-06-09 04:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by miki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Age doesn't matter in love. Go on,,, if you two are in love. There is nothing wrong with that. There is no required age in dating. There might be some critics from outside world but you don't need to care about it as long as you both are happy, and you both could share endless love with each other, your family understands your situation.
2006-06-09 04:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweethonesty 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The fact that everyone knows your age difference and still approves of your relationship means a lot. He sounds like a great guy - even if the two of you end up deciding to end your relationship.
Take it very slow. Talk to eachother about what you want out of life if you got together right now. At 19, you may want to travel, explore career choices, get a college degree, be able to be impulsive and take off for the weekend or hit a movie at midnight. At 35, he may want to settle down in a home where each of you comes home at the end of the day and make a quiet meal together, and perhaps start the process of having a baby.
Okay, I am making generalizations, but I hope you get the idea. I'm sure that the two of you are happy together right now. Just think about how day-to-day life together would be like; would each of you remain satisfied and happy with each other?
2006-06-09 04:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by katnkaboodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age becomes less important as you get older. Many men are far below their age level in maturity. The important part of a relationship is the consideration given and the pleasure two people have together. I do not mean the sex stuff. that is pretty much assured because the older the guy the less inhibitions they have to do whatever it takes to please a women. Enjoy what you can and do not hold age against him.
2006-06-09 04:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
35 and 19, more power to him.
2006-06-09 04:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Boba Phatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's normal for older guys and younger girls to hook up. Women have a shelf life, men do not.
2006-06-09 04:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋