You see, he is married and a lot older than me but I insist it's love. The way he smiles and makes me feel purposful. But my peers say it isn't love just a crush.
2006-06-09 04:01:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, although crush does NOT mean no chance of being together. Only in your case, it does.
2006-06-09 04:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a bit difficult to answer to ur this question as u have not mentioned ur age if ur between 10 to 18 than it is very much possible to b a infactuation . u can wait for some time like say 6 months try to concetrate somwhere else if ur studying than in studies and am sue there r many more things u could do intially u will find it difficult but later u will get adjusted to it and if it is true love and ull r destined ull will meet and when peers say something its not them but its their experience what speaks and also the age what i assume u r in u will thinl tht ur allways right than ur parents so jst give ur self time and love is somethin tht has no age but crush is jst a guest of not more than 3 weeks.
2006-06-09 11:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by chianel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww girl...i was just like you.
Love is something to feel, and to receive. Nothing like it.
Some people call it unrequited love, but its not real love until he gives it back. You may be in love or in lust or whatever...but he's gotta love you back for it to be love. Unfortunately, it takes more than a couple of looks. Crushes tend to be very strong and have you feeling very deeply, while love runs deep and takes a lot of time to develop.
WHen I was a teenager, ALL I did was fall for older guys. Enjoy the crush while it lasts...
2006-06-09 11:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a crush. Love is much deeper than smiling and making you feel purposeful. Love is respect, friendship, in sickness and in health. If it was love you would be able to communicate on a deeper level and you could outright discuss it with him.
2006-06-09 12:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we confuse "Love" with infatuation or "crush" .You say he is older than you...do you have a good relationship with ur Father? Sometimes kids who have poor relationships with their Dads look for a substitute to fill the void in their lives....Youre young...you will find urself a young man and really experience true love
2006-06-09 11:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you he only wants sex from another woman. Stop wasting your time before his wife finds out and kicks your booty. A crush is what he has on you. Love is what you have for him. Big difference.
2006-06-09 11:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go find someone around your own age that isn't married. Get a life.
2006-06-09 11:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a crush because its someone u know you cant have
2006-06-09 11:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love or crush its lust. you probably want something you cant have which makes it fun and exciting. Thats what my wife did played with fire and got caught.
2006-06-09 11:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
******* and sucking
2006-06-09 11:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tinku T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋