he will marry to me one day but he did not , finally i got marry someone but after that i never see my boss cause i did not want to cheat my husband, but my boss he force me alot to get back to him but i did not , its 4 yrs i never get back to him i said him no no no all the time, but still he forcing me , i dont understand how i say him that i dont want anymore him, cause i love my husband i even can not think abt to cheat my husband , what i do?
2006-06-09 03:55:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a new job, and tell your husband, or find a good lawyer, and sue for sexual harrassment.
2006-06-09 03:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie what r u still doing with ur boss as u have really not mentioned tht how come the boss is getting in touch with u i assume if ur still workin out there leave the job as soon a spossible or else tell him tht if he did not stop forcing u .u will b forced to tell this to ur husband and now tht ur married u have taken a right dicision to not ditch ur husband and b strong its jst a small problem if u try to solve it .and i think if ur huband is really understanding u should share this with him.wish u luck.
2006-06-09 04:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by chianel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another job, change your phone numbers, and if he continues tell your husband, go to the police and ask for a restrict order so he can not get close to you.
2006-06-09 04:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep saying no and if he is forcing you - that is rape. Tell him you are now married and you are not going to go out on your husband - period.
2006-06-09 03:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell your boss straight up that your married, happy and not interested in him anymore and walk away.
2006-06-09 03:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband exactly what has been going on,,,then seek a lawyer...please be honest with your husband so when all the dirty laundry is aired he wont be in for any surprises........you are clearly being sexually harassed...
2006-06-09 04:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by my4boyz1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very important aspect of ur life..be strong and all above answers are true....At last u have to take decision urself..best of luck
2006-06-09 04:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this falls under the category of sexual harassment. Just tell him that your sorry but if he continues to pursue you then you will file sexual harassment charges against him.
2006-06-09 03:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him square in the nuts. That will get the point across
2006-06-09 04:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be honest when you marriage.....last memory and never think again.don`t talk to your husband but keep the secret close.
2006-06-09 03:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by kofstar69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋