Why do women complain about wanting a good man and when you have one you dont appreciate them. My last 3 girlfriends all said I am the most romantic and best man they ever had and wouldnt commit so we broke up. In under 3 months they all came grovelling wanting me back. Pathetically thinking sex will get them back in the door. NOT! Should have recognized it when you had me!
2006-06-09 03:53:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The grass is always greener on the other side...
Maybe you are too nice. Nice guys finish last because they are boring. Most girls go for bad boys because they are exciting.
2006-06-09 03:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I am ridiculously romantic, and I am a good guy, but I can create suspense and mystery. I married a woman who appreciates every thought I put into making her happy. But on the outside looking in, I see a lot of hypocrisy. They beg for a life that they would call boring. They ask for good men but get with thugs. When they get a good man, they depreciate the man.
Not saying that all women do it, and not saying that men don't do the same thing, but more of the social weight is placed on man's shoulders. And it's unfortunate that change won't happen anytime soon. So, good luck to those looking for a good thing, and if you find it, don't abuse it.
2006-06-09 04:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women dont really want a "nice, romantic" guy. They want a guy who treats them badly, cheats on them, and calls them names. (this is when they are under 30) The reason is because they always figure they can get something better.
Then they have a kid or two, hit 30, and all of a sudden they realize how stupid they are and want to commit suicide for breaking up with the perfect awesome guy who was "To nice" or "Liked them too much."
The answer I guess is that women are freaking stupid.
2006-06-09 03:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Neaonbhb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are never satisfied. Trust me I know. I am one of them. I have a great man. So close to perfect its scary. Yet Im not satisfied. I think its the fact that women want to change a man and when a man is perfect theres nothing to change or help him with so they dont feel needed anymore. So they go looking elsewhere and eventually they realize they messed up a good thing.
2006-06-09 03:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is a difference between a good man and a man with whom one can spend a lifetime with. Maybe those girls just weren't feeling loved by you and tha'ts why you think they didn't appreciate you. I love my hubby, and he is a good man, but sometimes I feel like the things on his mind are a thousand times more inportant to him than me and that hurts. Hard to stay with anyone who doesn't love you the way you want to be loved. Best wishes
2006-06-09 03:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that. Maybe the ones you've dated just have a tendency to think the grass is greener on the other side. When you find the right woman you will both know.
2006-06-09 04:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥kam}i{ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some women are not mature enough to appreciate a good man. Just like some men dont appreciate a good woman. My advice to you is not to change but just dont be a fool for any1.
2006-06-09 03:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women do tt, a bad relationship doesnt mean all women. u dun understand women, i dun understand men. thats y im readin a bk on men are fr mars, women are fr venus. there is a difference btw men n women.
u havnt found e right gal yet, u juz hav to wait for the moment for e gal to appear n really love the way u are, without judgin u or wantin more except ur love.
gd luck n take care :)
2006-06-09 04:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stick to your guns. I don't know -- my husband had that problem before we married because he is a "romantic" (well, used to be :) ) -- for some reason women start getting treated too well and it scares them and I don't think they know why. I personally don't get it. I like being treated well - it's a thing with me. Stay the way you are. Someone will stay and appreciate you and your ways.......
This is one of our "mysteries" but one WE don't understand.
2006-06-09 03:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you date shallow or just out for a good time women and not the women who are really interested commitments or in what you have to offer.
2006-06-09 03:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋