My boyfriend other baby momma sent me an email with a letter from 4 years ago saying that he didn't love me and he wanted to be with her. At this time he had been caught up cheating on the both of us. I was pregnant at the time and she had just had a baby. ( hesays isn't his) Anyway, in the letter he says he wants to be with her not me. But at the same time he was sending me the same kind of letter. Of course 5 years ago I didn't know about the letter so I got back with him. Now I know about the letter. Do forgive him and move on. Or should I leave because now I know how he felt back then. I kicked him out the house and sent his clothes to his mom's house. He sent me flowers apologizing and he wont read the letter. He says it's in the past and that I should move on and that we have a good life together. What should I do?
2006-06-09 02:57:35 · 18 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HE keeps asking me to dinner then canceling out at the last minute. I am getting fed up!
2006-06-09 02:59:25 · update #1
Last week, when i answered the question about the 3 day missing. I thought he was cheating again. Come to find out this was unresolved issues from all those years ago. I am reassured he isn't cheating for the most part. The part I am worried about is the me being a mistake and not loving me. If that was the case why did he come back?
2006-06-09 03:45:10 · update #2
This guy sounds like a dirt bag. You need a real cookie. Here you go, two cookies and a glass of milk. O O \_/
2006-06-09 03:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bent 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You need to kick him to the curb. You sound like you have had to put up with too much already. If he keeps canceling at the last minute something is up and if you already have a child there is going to be tension and you don't want that around you child. He probably realized that he was caught up and his comfy home is now disturbed. Haven't you heard the saying that they don't know what they lost after it's gone. You are better than that..... find someone that meets your half way....good luck.
2006-06-09 10:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ambee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a very complicated situation. However, I think the past is the past and to bring it up now would not be very wise. What happened then is over and done. Re opening old wounds does nothing but hurt you and him as well. Maybe he has changed from then, but I think that you might look at his actions since you got back together. Weighing out his actions since then up to when you decided to bring it up should answer alot of questions. Trust your gut instinct on it. Usually the first instinct is correct.
2006-06-09 10:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by anderson b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is move on with your life, the guy is not worth it. He sounds more like a Casanova to me. He is not going to change unless maybe a miracle happens. Spend less time with him and thinking of him, start spending time with friends, male and female. In time you will come across someone who loves you just the way you are.
2006-06-09 10:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Murphy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be with him. Plus, he has a baby momma meaning, she's going to be a part of yall's life! He seems like one of those playa guys and I wouldn't waste my time fooling with him if I were you. But if you really love this guy and you think he's SINCERE and wants to be with you only (trust your instincts) then stay with him. No one can tell you to leave him if you're not ready to leave him. You can only make that choice yourself. Trust your heart and your instincts.
2006-06-09 10:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up girl don't believe him just move on with your life he's a jerk.U already survive with out him go on someday there's a better man aside from him that will come into your life.He has no word of Honor and he is a man ...too much he done for you and its enough stop hurting yourself..love your baby and move on without him good luck.
2006-06-09 10:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those were confusing times...if his actions since then have not made you feel like they have been true this whole time, then let it go...judge him for what kind of partner he has been..not what he was nor something so long ago that you didn't even know about.
2006-06-09 10:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same guy you did not know where he was for 3 days a week ago?
You should not believe him.
2006-06-09 10:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Maury or Jerry Springer
2006-06-09 10:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by zmebme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: No. Long Answer: No, but make him pay long and hard before you get rid of him. Don't listen to these liars, revenge really feels oh so good.
2006-06-09 10:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by YOUR OPINION COUNTS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋